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[–] ShareMySims@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

Same, I'd read it quite a while back and it was an eye opener, and "we want accomplices not allies" stuck with me, a few interactions I'd had recently made me want to post it lol

It's a shame that those who need to read it most won't, or will but find ways to distance themselves (like "oh, well this is about being an ally to Indigenous people so it doesn't apply to me, someone who claims to be any ally to [insert other marginalised group here]") as if these principals can't or shouldn't be applied universally and across the board..

In any case, definitely a must read.

[–] ShareMySims@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

That's how they get you!

ooh piece of candy

[–] ShareMySims@lemmy.dbzer0.com -3 points 5 months ago

Step one (and the easiest thing for me to do) is to write things like this and try to let people know I’m with them.

Step one is listening and being willing to deal with the discomfort that might come with that. Not being the easiest thing for you to do is for you to resolve with yourself. But step one will always be to set your ego aside and listen.

but it’s a start.

That's for you to prove, the fight rages on with or without you.

[–] ShareMySims@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (3 children)

I kid, but

Maybe don't if you're going to perpetuate exactly the same bullshit they are?

[–] ShareMySims@lemmy.dbzer0.com 19 points 5 months ago (4 children)

Whale was like "if not food, why food shaped?" 😂

Seriously though, that must have been terrifying..

[–] ShareMySims@lemmy.dbzer0.com -5 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (2 children)

You could start by not centring yourself and making a post about what a good ally you think you are and instead make one centring the people you say you're here to support ("I love you, solidarity" done), one simply asking how you can help, or even better, be a good ally and invest your own time, energy, and emotional labour in searching out and consuming some of the hundreds if not thousands of articles/videos/podcasts/blogs/communities that already exist out there on the subject.

You might feel helpless, but you have significantly more privilege than most people here, use it.

Don't say.

Do.

[–] ShareMySims@lemmy.dbzer0.com -3 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

Individual liberals are often actually doing things, like campaigning for ballot measures and such

So supporting the status quo.

they are simply optimistic about a system that is rigged against them. It’s kinda hard to blame them for that.

No they actively support an oppressive system, and whenever the people being oppressed by said system tell them so they refuse to change anything about their behaviour, making them actively complicit.

No one is saying they are responsible for the system existing, but they categorically can and should be held accountable for their actions in participating in and upholding it, and I absolutely blame them for their part, and those making excuses for them, for theirs.

Their, and your, complacency is complicity.

[–] ShareMySims@lemmy.dbzer0.com 16 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

It was just a matter of time (and don't be mistaken, he will act on it), but the general population sadly won't give a fuck (that's the only purpose we serve those in power, always have - a litmus test to see how comfortable the general population is with inflicting suffering on to and even exterminating groups of people), if anything a lot more than just maga people will be cheering this shit on, or at the very least "passively" supporting it (even if they don't think they are, saying shit like "stupid people shouldn't breed"* is the same eugenicist shit).

The usage of IQ as a measure of anything at all is in itself deeply eugenicist (so ableist, but also racist, classist, and sexist), but try telling people that and see how quickly you get dogpiled by so so many desperate to cling on to the sense of superiority an arbitrary number (which often came from an online quiz, though tbf, those are about as valid as a professionally administered one) gives them. It's so problematic on so many levels, and serves no purpose but to divide and oppress.

I agree, it really is fucking scary..

E: *like several variations in the replies to this very post, people seriously need to do better.

[–] ShareMySims@lemmy.dbzer0.com 17 points 5 months ago

People are still questioning why??

[–] ShareMySims@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 5 months ago

Propaganda machine be propaganda machining.. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[–] ShareMySims@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 5 months ago

!anythingbutmetric@discuss.tchncs.de

[–] ShareMySims@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 5 months ago (4 children)

In 4 years (hopefully), we’ll have someone else in charge, and I am going to be right here, ready to pick up where things left off.

I know you mean well, but if you genuinely care, you're going to have to do better than that at this point. "Where things left off" was already bad for a lot of people, and even if society at large does get back there, many of us won't make it that long.

 

ID: 4 drawn examples of angry shouty people in 2 side by side columns "what they say" and "what they mean"

1 What they say: "A chicken Costs £2. Boil the bones and throw in some noodles and Sweetcorn and you can feed a family of four for a week. Easy."

What they mean: "I went into a LIDL once."

2 What they say: "A bag of pasta is 28p. A jar of Sauce is 67. It's not rocket Science for goodness Sake"

What they mean: "I have never heard of scurvy, ricketts, anaemia arthritis or vitamin deficiency"

3 What they say: "Pfft. You can easily feed a family by foraging for apples and Mushrooms"

What they mean: "If You Come anywhere near my estate my gamekeeper will shoot You in the face"

4 What they say: "Well if the parents were more fiscally responsible they wouldn't be in poverty in the First place"

What they mean: "I am a massive cunt"

Credit @DocHackenbush@mastodon.social

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ID: a mock up of the Jaws movie poster, above the water it says "TRANS" in big red letters, floating on the surface is an Estradiol pill, and coming at it from the depths bellow is a Blåhaj, the tagline says "you're gonna get a bigger butt"

 

ID: aléxandros! @bodega_gyro_ao posted: "If you aren't mobilizing your antiviolence against existing structural violence, you aren't antiviolence, you're pro status quo."

 

ID: photo of Britney Spears set on a sparkly rainbow background, above her is stylised text "You better seize the means, bitch."

Credit: HOLOGENDER

 

ID: A scene from Legally Blonde of a conversation between Warner and Elle in the corridor at Harvard, in 4 panels:

  1. Warner asks "What happened to the tolerant left?"

  2. Elle replies, smiling "Who said we were tolerant?"

  3. Warner continues "I thought you were supposed to be tolerant of all beliefs!"

  4. Elle looks confused "Why would we tolerate bigotry, inequity, or oppression?"

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ID: MUNROE @MunroeBergdorf posted: "Please don't be surprised if I block you instead of engaging in 'a debate' about issues that don't affect you, but impact on my life greatly. I do not need to, nor want to converse with people who prioritize their desire to prove a point, over my humanity and rights."

Amanda Jette Knox @MunroeBergdorf replies: "THIS. You owe no one a debate on who you are, ever. Not online. Not in person. Not in the media."

 

ID: existennialmemes posted: "Stop. Please back up. That's not a Manic Pixie Dream Girl. That's a Feral Non Binary Autistic and they're highly aggressive towards outsiders."

 

ID: "My two personalities coexisting in one body somehow" below is a photo of a black Godzilla action figure using a pink comb on the teal and pink glittery hair of a My Little Pony doll. In the background is a pink toy castle

 

ID: photo of a dark road through some woods, in the lower right is text saying "The road to fascism is lined with people telling you to stop overreacting."

 

ID: A drawing of a blue cat and a pink cat holding a trans flag up together. On the flag are the words "Let trans people live" and bellow the cats it continues "full and safe lives"

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ID: image from Legally Blonde of Elle floating on a pink inflatable in a pool, next to her is stylised text that says: "I'm not interested in being polite or heterosexual"

@ElleWoodsCore

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ID: stevens_bad_advice posted: "Fun fact, if billionaires got shot as often as school children, we'd run out of billionaires in 2 months."

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