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[–] ShareMySims@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 6 months ago

Which is precisely why I said it isn't surprising.

[–] ShareMySims@lemmy.dbzer0.com 28 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (10 children)

You also don't get what me nor op is saying evidently.

You aren't the one doing the demanding.

You do whatever the fuck you want to do, debate as many fuckers as you fucking please, but when others demand marginalised people debate them, as is stated in OP we don't owe them shit.

[–] ShareMySims@lemmy.dbzer0.com 56 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (18 children)

Can you not understand the difference between wanting to do something, and something being demanded of you?

[–] ShareMySims@lemmy.dbzer0.com -2 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (1 children)

You’re attacking them

Cis person comes on to a post about trans people being rounded up in preparation for their human rights to be removed demanding to be educated about a subject that has been discussed and written about millions of times by millions of people all of which are available at the tip of his finger, gets told "NO", and somehow he is the victim that is under "attack".

Fucking typical.

GTFOH

[–] ShareMySims@lemmy.dbzer0.com -2 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (3 children)

Sometimes people forget you can just not respond to things,

Lmfao, says the person defending the other person who barged in to a post where people are clearly hurting and inserted himself and his privileged feelings and wilful ignorance by responding to a comment that was clearly not an invitation for debate, declaring his opinion is already made up, and still insists said hurting trans people spoon feed him information that is easily available at the click of a fucking button.

I'm not the one who's forgotten anything, clown.

[–] ShareMySims@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

I dont know how to respond to that to be honest.

Of course you don't since you're clearly incapable of shutting up and listening. That's literally all it takes.¯\_(ツ)_/¯

I wanted to hear what you had to say

Lmfao, prove it. I told you what I had to say, and you're clearly not interested in hearing it at all, nor in investing any of your own time or energy in to informing yourself.

Never mind who wholly inappropriate it is to even come on to a post like this in the first place expecting people to expend emotional labour on you.

So again - you not wanting to hear is a you problem, not an available information problem, and definitely not my problem or the problem of other trans and or otherwise marginalised people.

We don't owe you shit, if you actually care you do your own fucking work.

"People often say 'stop being angry and educate us,' not understanding that the anger is part of the education." - Dentata

Oh, and also

Expecting marginalised peoples to disregard their own emotions to calmly educate you is the epitome of entitlement

[–] ShareMySims@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 6 months ago

Wide miss, get you one angry hiss and a scuttle away lmao

[–] ShareMySims@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 6 months ago (3 children)

Depends on the facts, could be hit or miss 😂

[–] ShareMySims@lemmy.dbzer0.com -2 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (8 children)

I’m not from America so have no skin in the game, and for all intents and purposes you’d look at me and see a cis dude.

as I said, I’ve already got an opinion based on where I’m from

And yet here you are, demanding emotional labour from people who very much do have skin in the game and are hurting and have better things to do than to spoon feed you information you've already admitted to not being open to hear.

Take this as a learning opportunity - open a search engine of your choice, and start doing your own work. The people you want to hear from have and continue to speak up (E: hell, you could even scroll maybe a page or two through my profile, as a person whose opinions you seem interested in, but not interested enough to lift a finger, and find plenty of places to get you started). You not wanting to make any effort to listen is a you problem, not a lack of available information problem.

[–] ShareMySims@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (11 children)

Oh, sorry if I wasn't clear - the downvotes are clearly coming from (almost certainly) cis people who are more uncomfortable being confronted with the fact that they can't vote fascism away (and are happy to scapegoat those oppressed by it most), than they are with the ongoing oppression of trans people (which definitely didn't start with trump, and definitely wouldn't have stopped if Kamala had been elected).

Definitely wasn't thinking it was folks from within the community.

[–] ShareMySims@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 6 months ago (2 children)

This is horrifying but sadly not surprising, and only the beginning. So while it's good that their legal teams are trying their best to help, it feels like there isn't going to be much they can do (in terms of lawyering) to stop this.

I hope at least some local groups are organising direct action, and would be glad to send them some funds if anyone knows of any.

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