Secret_Music

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Haha that is awesome! I had to look it up.

You stole my answer. Save us Superman!

[–] Secret_Music@piefed.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 hours ago (2 children)

Halloween isn't really a big thing in my country, apart from kids here and there in safe enough areas that trick or treat. There's probably dance / alternative / goth clubs that do dress up nights though. But all I saw this year that stuck out to me was online, Heidi Klum:

I seem to remember that she does something pretty epic every year though.

[–] Secret_Music@piefed.blahaj.zone 10 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

Fun fact: to this day I still don't know what the "loss" thing is all about and I've never bothered looking it up.

But no, in case you're serious, I think it's just old fashioned left to right, top row then bottom row. Like a comic book. A style that was fairly popular before internet brain rot.

I feel like I have a lot in a big barrel that sloshes and spills sometimes. I was a "sensitive" kid that cried at movies and TV, and animals in the SPCA, and vandalized trees. Somewhere along the way I had to get it under control or store it, probably around starting school and needing to putting a mask on in general. Not to say that I never had embarrassing moments from that point on.

I still cry about both big and small things, when I'm in my own space. And one of things that I love about watching movies and series by myself with earphones in is that I get to cry at dumb shit uninterrupted and not feeling self conscious. I rewatched Harley Quinn and cried my eyes out at the finale of that goofy shit lol.

  1. To be successful enough in an artistic endeavour (be it music or writing or making a game or whatever), that I can just spend the rest of my life creating things while I travel and do whatever else.

  2. In lieu of making money doing something that I love, any job that you can do from home or on the move, and once again I could travel or create things in my free time. My life is about half way over (if I even live as long as the average), I want to see new things and be enriched and not be in a workshop or office cubicle for the rest of my life.

  3. Once I've seen and done and everything I want to see and do and I know that I'm going to be staying in one place for the rest of my life (and if money was no issue), then it would be something related to taking in and caring for animals.

This might make me mean but I probably have even less sympathy for non white people, queer people and women that side with the religious right wing, white supremacist, patriarchal bigots and think they're not also on the list. Less sympathy for them than for magas, which is basically none as it is.

[–] Secret_Music@piefed.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Punk's been dead for a long time. The only two bands that you ever hear about these days making a socio-political splash of any note are Rage Against the Machine and Green Day, who had their peaks in the '90s and gatekeepers didn't even consider Green Day to be punk. Millennials completely failed to take that baton from Gen X and instead gave the world podcasts and Pop Idols. Chappell Roan is more punk than anything that's come out of the alternative scene in the last 20 years.

I 100% agree with what you saying but also I appreciate attempts to revive the punk spirit because society needs it more than ever. And at least it's coming from DC Comics and not Apple or Amazon or some shit.

 

Top: Justice League Unlimited #15, Supergirl #9, Superman #34 Bottom: Action Comics #1094, Batman/Superman: World’s Finest #47, Superman Unlimited #9

Random article about it.

Full disclosure for the community here, apart from the occasional graphic novel or collected edition over the years, I haven't followed up to date stuff in years, like since I was a kid. I keep myself sustained with adaptations these days. Although I'm more tempted than ever to check out the Absolute runs.

I just came across this elsewhere and thought it was cool.

I just want to say something regarding mainstream social media and why I'm making use of it because I know that people here rabidly hate it, and for good reason.

I've been practically a hermit for the last decade of my life and right now I really need to step out of my cottage in the woods and back into the world again. I've enjoyed being alone and finding myself but now that I've found myself, I want to find my people.

I have definitely found a lot of my people around here but I also need somewhere that I can show my face, and see the faces of the people who are like me too.

And as far as my country goes (South Africa), if I want to find groups, or find out where the clubs are, or start having any sort of offline social life again, I'm going to have to make use of mainstream social media, I'm afraid.

And for what it's worth, I only really started using it again more regularly this year. And it's an enshitified battlefield for sure.

It would be fantastic if the Fediverse could be true replacement for it all but it's not even close yet. It's a great little international online community of mostly cool people but it can't be my only social life. Not anymore.

[–] Secret_Music@piefed.blahaj.zone 47 points 1 day ago (5 children)

Waiting for someone to tell me it's an AI picture or the cat is sick or something.

Not sure if that's any better. I think I'm actually just gonna delete this post because I thought it was cute but this is just sad either way.

Oof I really hope not. These hairless type cats often have curly tails, I just thought this was extra curly. Now I'm thinking I should just delete the post..

 

I thought this post would be a good start to my new PieFed account. I'm back to talk about myself here again after about 6 months.

I feel like I need to make another one of these for myself because in previous posts here, I have discussed things like imposter syndrome or not valid or worthy enough etc. I read the definitions and found the words for who I am way too late in life. And feel like I've come a long way in a relatively short space of time in this regard.

Right now I feel pretty confident saying that I no longer need validation from anyone. That's not why I'm here talking about myself this time. I am just here to start off this new account by saying to the world that this is who I am. And who I always have been, long before I started seeing characters that I strangely identified with or envied in media and finally started looking up the meaning of things like "non-binary"and reading about myself.

I get validated by the world now. From euphoria to ewwphoria to just connecting dots in my mind and making sense of memories and things I did and things I liked.

Appearance wise, an androgynous question mark is what I wanted and seems to be I've started to achieve, with less effort than I thought it would take. Really I'm returning to my style from after school was out and into my early 20s, before I retreated from the world for a little too long. And I'm not even half way there yet.

But in real world, shop cashiers are occasionally referring to me as not my agab (then getting squirmy and trying to correct themselves); and I'm 100% noticing a lot more men, always men (and always a certain archetype in certain kind of large vehicle) practically fucking leering at me out their windows as they drive past. Like, eyes on the road big guy. Actually everyone is a little different now, or I am and it's all in my head but either way the result is the same. Interactions in the real world are validating as fuck now.

And on mainstream social media, where I've got pictures, people are frequently referring to me with pronouns and words that don't match my agab. And more enlightened people use they/them. And once in a hostile encounter, I got referred to as "it", which bothered me for a while but now I think I'll own that too. And when you talk about something from the past relating to gender issues and someone that I haven't even spoken to since school gives it a thumbs up, it goes a long way.

I'm using a gender neutral name now on those platforms but even with my very gendered real name, at one point I got accused of pretending to be my agab by a dumb bigot. Which you know what, fuck yeah. I am not a 1 or a 0 and people that only understand binary don't know wtf to do with me. Even targeted algorithms and advertising, gross as those things are, are validating as fuck these days to watch try to figure me out.

And yeah, that's it. Like I said at the start, this post was just entirely about myself. And for myself too, I need to put this out into the world somewhere, so thank you for the space to do this. I haven't had any big "coming out" moment (although knowledgeable people will definitely know by now based and things I say and share etc.) and honestly the way I'm planning on doing it is to just be more and more authentically me until it gets to the point where if anyone asks and really needs us spelt out for them, the news won't be shocking and it'll be more of a "well duh" moment.

I just want to end this by saying that you don't owe the world androgyny or have to be GNC to be non-binary. Your identity is who you are, not who you appear to be and you are valid no matter how you look. This is just my own journey and my own way of feeling more like my authentic self. And in current socio-political times, I don't mind my appearance being a protest and a way to tell bullied people that they're safe with me either.

I am who I am, who I always was and who I am inevitably becoming. And I don't need anyone else's permission or approval to be me.

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