Roundcat

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[–] Roundcat@kbin.social 22 points 2 years ago (3 children)

As someone who presents masculine, I have gotten the "be a man" treatment from women several times. Ultimately it does come from a patriarchal standard of society, but its something that is perpetuated by everyone, consciously or otherwise. Not discounting what you are saying, but I think it's important to highlight that toxic masculinity can come from anywhere.

[–] Roundcat@kbin.social 66 points 2 years ago (6 children)

The fact that being stoic, emotionless or even cold is seen as a trait of masculinity is incredibly frustrating. I feel men should be encouraged to be passionate and expressive with their emotions. Anger shouldn't be the only one we encourage as a society. Have you ever seen a man glow up about his lego collection, or cry at a beautiful scene in a movie they love? More of that please.

Also, men are just as deserving of support networks as anyone else. Though we all experience life differently, we are all human in the end.

[–] Roundcat@kbin.social 30 points 2 years ago (6 children)

"YoU sHoUlD sMiLe MoRe."

[–] Roundcat@kbin.social 4 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Democrat isn't really an ideology though as much as it's a coalition of voters. They can be anyone from Communists and socialists to conservatives who don't align with the Republican party. The majority of politicians within the party tend to be free market liberals akin to Clinton, with a few European style Social Democrats akin to Bernie Sanders and AOC. As someone who supports gun ownership and rejects the existence of corporate welfare and monopolies, I might not identify with many of the politicians within the Democratic party. Likewise I take issue with the Republican's stances towards human rights, the establishment of religion, and putting the legitimacy of elections into question. I might be more comfortable with voting Democrat, but the party's platform would not be how I would describe my ideology.

[–] Roundcat@kbin.social 6 points 2 years ago

Thanks. Seeing Orwell's name attached to one of your recs is a good sign.

[–] Roundcat@kbin.social 1 points 2 years ago

I have 2 of those at least. Might give them a try.

[–] Roundcat@kbin.social 16 points 2 years ago

Then prove him wrong.

[–] Roundcat@kbin.social 6 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I have mixed feelings on this monument. The parts recommending eugenics is not cool, but some of the messages like living with nature and valuing truth are important. Sadly, it was probably the encouraging of universalism, tempering with reason, and the living with nature that the religious terrorists took issue with.

I can't say I morn the loss of the monument entirely, but the fact a more or less secular monument was destroyed for religious reasons kinda feels haunting. Kinda reminds me of the Taliban destroying the ancient statues of Buddha in Afghanistan.

[–] Roundcat@kbin.social 6 points 2 years ago (2 children)

I often go with Anti-Authoritarian when describing my beliefs. I've played around with the Anarchist label as well, though it seems to have the same affect on Communists who want an edgier label (which is ironic, considering both groups have clashed with each other throughout history)

[–] Roundcat@kbin.social 38 points 2 years ago (2 children)

(Someone uses it as their prof picture.)

"THIEF!!! WE HATES IT FOREVER!!!"

[–] Roundcat@kbin.social 11 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Anecdotally I want to say boys have always felt more conservative around that age, especially when I was in highschool in the early 2000s. Granted I lived my teen years in the south, and this probably more of a cope than an actual explanation. There definitely seems to be a lot more active targeting of young men by right wing influencers now. In the past right wing media seemed to always be the domain of old people.

[–] Roundcat@kbin.social 12 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (15 children)

In many ways I still consider myself libertarian, but moreso in anti authority leaning than Republican but with a cooler label. Many of my peers in highschool and university clicked with the pro guns, pro expression sentiment, but when it came actually letting queer people and religious minorities live their lives, or allowing women control over their own bodies and healthcare, they always seemed to side with the Authoritarians in power threatening the to restrict these people. Not to mention many of them had no problem with authority as long as it came from a corporate entity or oligarch.

I still identify with the term Libertarian, but have stopped using it because it truly doesn't represent what it was supposed to mean anymore.

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