RiotDoll

joined 1 year ago
[–] RiotDoll@hexbear.net 25 points 1 year ago

just a different kitchen worker here chiming in to say that Bourdain's book may have been your window, but people live that life every day and most of them don't get to write a book about it. I'm a dishwasher and prep cook by time worked, and more than half of that meme relates to me without ever having read some dead asshole's book

[–] RiotDoll@hexbear.net 7 points 1 year ago

The people who make decisions on the scale that could affect climate change are content to change nothing but accellerate automation in all economic sectors and prepare for collapse/accellerate it because they're all malthusian ecofash nutjobs who are convinced they're the only worthwhile souls on the planet, so dash your hopes for anything else, this is basically kill or be killed stuff.

[–] RiotDoll@hexbear.net 2 points 1 year ago

bumping because the march of time is ceaseless and paired with unending increase in expenses :-|

if anybody has job ledes for the seattle area for someone with like a HS diploma and six hours of college credits lmk as well

[–] RiotDoll@hexbear.net 21 points 1 year ago

tbqh if you're not conceptualizing these sorts of people as an honest to God enemy, like the kind you actually go to war with - the kind that represents an existential threat to you and everything you love - you need to be.

[–] RiotDoll@hexbear.net 39 points 1 year ago (4 children)

can we please, collectively, do more than nothing while EVERYTHING continues to get worse?

[–] RiotDoll@hexbear.net 10 points 1 year ago

I've been in exclusively male spaces, i've been in exclusively female spaces, i've been in mixed queer, and mixed het spaces. Just a product of being in the closet and cis passing, and later out of the closet and trans - it's all complicated, but I feel like, in terms of what can be typically expected, the cis male spaces were the most emotionally constipated ("I feel safer talking to a tree..."), but in general cis culture doesn't seem to provide a lot of space for real emotional availability? Like to be quite honest I didn't start learning how to be truly myself until I began to feel at home in queer spaces - cis white western culture is a place where people are wound the fuck up and masking several layers deep, and generally scared to be themselves, and there is almost always some mal-adjusted fucker, no matter the group composition, that'll use vulnerability against you in any given social space - so people get scared to be authentic.

There's something deeply unwell if most people feel like a tree has more to offer them emotionally than another human being, no matter what though.

[–] RiotDoll@hexbear.net 39 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Honestly can't say this validates electoralism without qualifiers, as beating a nazi within an inch of their life is explicitly direct action; electoralism coming in for the utility save and getting her immunity is an asterisk'd W at best

[–] RiotDoll@hexbear.net 1 points 1 year ago

To everyone that's helped: thank you so much. Bless you all. Giving this a bump in the hopes i can get a little more to cover what I can while regular income is absent, but it has been heart warming and humbling to see the solidarity with which this community operates. God bless.

[–] RiotDoll@hexbear.net 28 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

controlled opposition sure looks weird in the uk

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[–] RiotDoll@hexbear.net 23 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

I'm longposting and there's nothing you can do to stop me.

It really is quite the coup, a cultural victory for liberalism and conservative values that there are a ton of people who think they understand politics because they plug into a few places, like the cable news giants and places like NYT, and the associated internet sphere. Like, they obviously don't have any of it in fact. If you try to discuss politics with any depth, setting aside any kind of marxist tendencies I have - just discussing politics, morality, philosophy - how unread everyone is. Like, the ignorance of the average liberal is profound. When they do read, it's the people that are allowed to be platformed on those media outlets, so nothing that doesn't already confirm their own worldview, and nothing of any intellectual substance - anything that might confer intellectual rigor is mysteriously absent (it's so those on the lower rungs economically are not empowered to realize liberals are taking them for a fucking ride).

There is a caste of them that know exactly what they are - they hold identities that the far right desires to exterminate, or they have loved ones in that category, but are otherwise deeply conservative people. They may or may not be in denial about that, but that denial doesn't change anything. Their empathy extends exactly as far as where their own self interest lies - but these aren't even the norm - the norm are people who think they can navigate politics with nothing but their own reckoning and the slurry of bad takes and platformed liberalism, along with the conditioning they're fed to distrust anything outside of that bubble - they're conditioned to stay in place and never actually challenge their own views - to take it for granted they've got it figured out already.

Liberals get uniquely gassed up by their media to feel like the smartest, biggest adult in the room, which is a position that, as a feature, does not require self reflection, introspection, or further education. You're already at the apex, the only thing left to do is force other people to receive your Maddowian Wisdom, and it would be funny if it wasn't actively choking off left-wing inroads into popular culture and (more importantly) political gains - electoral and otherwise.

The far right leans into messaging that weaponizes and even exalts ignorance - and where it has any intellectual investment - is spent similarly exalting their big boys - but seeing as this cohort is expressly an enemy, they're an uncomplicated problem to deal with. Liberalism, on the other hand, is an active menace to the left, and in tandem with infiltration/suppression, is the main weapon in preventing any meaningful political gains by the left.

It fucking sucks. But if you want to tear them down, you kind of need to start with the ways in which they make themselves intellectually unassailable. Most aren't open to it, but I've managed to radicalize more than a few - it just takes work and patience.

[–] RiotDoll@hexbear.net 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

When I'm comfy, I have no problem expressing femme or at least non binary, and people affirm this, but when i'm uncomfortable, if I'm really done to the nines and there's no mistaking my presentation - i come off as a bitch - but if i am in normal-ish clothes - a femme top and blue jeansx or something - i just get misgendered and coded masculine.

It takes so much work for the cis world to recognize me, and I feel that too.

I am genuinely inwardly feminine, but I was alive for almost three decades before i started transition, so I have just under a decade of acting femme, in my early toddler years, and in the five years since i started this journey - in between is decades of living as a 'boy', and a 'man', and that coding is still more or less the default "server offline" behavior - when I have nothing else, i retreat into the little stoic stern sadboy shell I spent 28 years hiding in. I hate it :|

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