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My grandma passed away and my aunt sent me a selfie of her, my uncle (siblings, not a couple), and my deceased grandma in the hospital bed, is it normal that I'm put off by this? in c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.world

[–] ReanuKeeves@lemm.ee 3 points 4 months ago

Maybe one day

My grandma passed away and my aunt sent me a selfie of her, my uncle (siblings, not a couple), and my deceased grandma in the hospital bed, is it normal that I'm put off by this? in c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.world

[–] ReanuKeeves@lemm.ee 18 points 4 months ago

You prick, I was just about to put my phone down and you made me laugh

Other than a faulty charging port, is there any reason to use a wireless phone charger over wired? in c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.world

[–] ReanuKeeves@lemm.ee 2 points 4 months ago

Fair enough, I didn't mean to he ableist

My grandma passed away and my aunt sent me a selfie of her, my uncle (siblings, not a couple), and my deceased grandma in the hospital bed, is it normal that I'm put off by this? in c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.world

[–] ReanuKeeves@lemm.ee 16 points 4 months ago

Thank you, you're right, I need to put my phone away and distract myself for a bit.

My grandma passed away and my aunt sent me a selfie of her, my uncle (siblings, not a couple), and my deceased grandma in the hospital bed, is it normal that I'm put off by this? in c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.world

[–] ReanuKeeves@lemm.ee 3 points 4 months ago (2 children)

I appreciate you putting the time into that message. From what my dad told me, my grandpa wasn't a very nice person and I knew since I was a kid that my dad was not well adjusted because of it so I'm sure the same goes for his siblings. I have always been patient with them and I guess It's hard for me to understand why they would want to pass trauma onto me.

My childhood was full of abuse and neglect but I knew I didn't want to put others through that. So it's odd to me that someone can experience pain and want to pass it on, knowing how it felt to be hurt. Especially by the people who are supposed to protect and guide you through life. I'm no saint, I just don't understand why they would hurt me when I have tried to be nothing but cordial with them.

My grandma passed away and my aunt sent me a selfie of her, my uncle (siblings, not a couple), and my deceased grandma in the hospital bed, is it normal that I'm put off by this? in c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.world

[–] ReanuKeeves@lemm.ee 7 points 4 months ago (2 children)

She's not one to apologize so I just didn't say anything. Mostly out of shock and grief at the time.

My grandma passed away and my aunt sent me a selfie of her, my uncle (siblings, not a couple), and my deceased grandma in the hospital bed, is it normal that I'm put off by this? in c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.world

[–] ReanuKeeves@lemm.ee 7 points 4 months ago

Thank you, I'm sorry you have crazy relatives too

My grandma passed away and my aunt sent me a selfie of her, my uncle (siblings, not a couple), and my deceased grandma in the hospital bed, is it normal that I'm put off by this? in c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.world

[–] ReanuKeeves@lemm.ee 5 points 4 months ago

Not so much unsafe but more disgusted

My grandma passed away and my aunt sent me a selfie of her, my uncle (siblings, not a couple), and my deceased grandma in the hospital bed, is it normal that I'm put off by this? in c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.world

[–] ReanuKeeves@lemm.ee 26 points 4 months ago (5 children)

Ya I get what you mean, it's just keeping me up at 2:30 am so I thought I may as well try to get a third party opinion if possible to see if I'm overthinking, I agree with the ghosting

My grandma passed away and my aunt sent me a selfie of her, my uncle (siblings, not a couple), and my deceased grandma in the hospital bed, is it normal that I'm put off by this? in c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.world

[–] ReanuKeeves@lemm.ee 8 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

Tbh, pretty narcissistic. He disowned my cousin, reasons unknown but I do recall he occasionally gave her alcohol as a kid to make her sleep, he's on his second marriage now. Everytime we've talked, he's said I should come by so he can teach me how to be a man.

That side of the family is a mess in general. Well the other side is also a mess, my uncle on that side made me arm wrestle him when I was 19 and when he lost he slapped me in the face and tried to fight me so I had to put him in a kimura until he started crying.

Edit: oh sorry i should have specified, the aunt and uncle in the picture were my grandmas kids, not a couple

Other than a faulty charging port, is there any reason to use a wireless phone charger over wired? in c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.world

[–] ReanuKeeves@lemm.ee 3 points 4 months ago

Huh, I never considered the inefficiency to be that bad

Other than a faulty charging port, is there any reason to use a wireless phone charger over wired? in c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.world

[–] ReanuKeeves@lemm.ee 1 points 4 months ago

Unplug the phone