Procapra

joined 1 year ago
[–] Procapra@hexbear.net 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Makes sense. Thanks for the explanation.

[–] Procapra@hexbear.net 5 points 1 year ago

According to Lilian (otokonoko) MCT oil lasts ~7 years so you could probably order 7 vials from her and be good for a while.

[–] Procapra@hexbear.net 1 points 1 year ago (3 children)

What is this for?

[–] Procapra@hexbear.net 2 points 1 year ago

Does this guy know that's the nazbol logo? Maybe he's ignorant and just thought the logo looked cool?

I so badly want to believe it's the latter option but then again, he is on an incel forum...

[–] Procapra@hexbear.net 13 points 1 year ago (4 children)

How different is Kosher and Halal? Wouldn't this unironically be better for jews too?

[–] Procapra@hexbear.net 11 points 1 year ago

I really wish more games had higher difficulty options, but that doesn't mean I want everyone to suffer the way I do. Accessibility is good!

[–] Procapra@hexbear.net 10 points 1 year ago

As long as you're content that's all that really matters. If you aren't having fun with the whole dating thing it's totally valid to take a break. heart-sickle

[–] Procapra@hexbear.net 3 points 1 year ago

Straight to gulag. No musk kinks on my christian minecraft server.

[–] Procapra@hexbear.net 14 points 1 year ago (2 children)
[–] Procapra@hexbear.net 18 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I'd respect Putin or Xi even more if they did this.

[–] Procapra@hexbear.net 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

This needs to be one of the quotes that appears at the top of the site. This is too fucking funny.

 

As it stands now, this community serves mostly as a way to get money. That isn't a bad thing, but cash is not a 1-size-fits-all solution to every problem. Taking care of a persons needs is always priority #1, but at times, said person is unfit to handle money in a way that reliably alleviates those needs. Traditional, local, mutual-aid networks can usually address this in the form of community pot lucks, clothing exchange, etc. Here we are more or less limited to advice and more money.

Making a rule about unsolicited advice and being critical of users, limits us to just money as a tool to solve problems. Sometimes people need a tough conversation to grow as a person, sometimes people need to be reminded of the situation they are in. Yes, the capitalist system is oppressive. Yes, there are systemic issues that prevent us all from succeeding. That doesn't mean there is no situation where decision making is a factor. Sometimes, you do actually need help making better choices. This isn't to shame people for making bad decisions, sometimes there are psychiatric reasons, sometimes they genuinely don't know any better, but you still should speak up so they can potentially correct the problem and learn.

This rule effectively creates a hug-box where we all pretend that personal responsibility doesn't exist, that there is simply nothing to be done. It's incredibly infantile, it's a cope, and the people in this community deserve better than that.

EDIT: I feel I may have had a change of heart after reading the comments left by @EelBolshevikism If you are looking for a somewhat comprehensive response, those comments are likely a good starting point.

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