I'm generally ambivalent at best about the institution of marriage, but my wife (as you might conclude) was decisively pro-marriage.
Really it doesn't change anything, just treat it like an excuse to buy your SO a nice ring and throw a huge party, if that's the kind of thing you're into (and if not, then don't include those things as part of your engagement/wedding).
I never really got into reddit.
Getting in on Lemmy (relatively) early made it feel more specifical so I actually do more than search it for answers