Outset2568

For gay hookups, 100%. The thing is, I'm (mostly) heterosexual and want my first time to be with a woman.

I've also heard from gay friends that Grindr isn't that good either.

I considered dance classes before, but they've often been at times really inconvenient for me.

Pets aren't really an option right now. Unfortunately I still live with parents (much of my country is too damn expensive for a single guy to even rent an apartment in, let alone buy a home.) My parents are vehemently against getting animals.

Btw one dirty advice from the books: if you're trying for a woman that's not single, you're competing against one guy. If she is single, you're competing against everyone. It may not be nice, but everything is fair in war and love, right

Jacking another man's girl goes against my moral code.

I'd argue the inverse that you may be competing with just one guy, but convincing a lady to leave her existing relationship or even cheat is harder.

Also, would you really want to date somebody who is unwilling to stay loyal to their partner?

Unfortunately lemmy is not like other fediverse platforms that allow hiding domains, so if you decide to peek at the /instances page to view what has been blocked do not interact or visit the instances we have defederated from as more than quite a few are known to host genuine illegal content. You have been warned.

I took a glance at the list, and the amount of blocked instances that straight-up mention pedo shit in their URL makes me sick.

To be honest this is going to be a growing issue. Lemmy World already had to disable image hosting and shut down the LemmyShitpost community because spammers from other instances were straight-up overloading the community with tonnes of CP.

I think it would be wise to approach federation from a whitelist rather than a blacklist perspective. Require trusted communities to opt in to be federated with you.

Scissoring: +155%

Oh scissor me timbers!

Definitely back for me. Your ass makes the lingerie look good.

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Actually in the same boat as you. 31 here, haven't done the deed yet and I'm seriously considering going down the escort route.

My dating experiences have ranged from bad to terrible. Ladies here tend to be incredibly frigid.

Here in the UK, prostitution is legal but many things commonly associated with the sex industry (brothels, pimping, kerb crawling, soliciting sex in a public place) are criminalised. But I still think I'd rather go to the Netherlands or Germany since they have fully regulated sex industries.

I don't get the obsession with wanting as many communities as possible federated with LemmyNSFW. Nobody's going to use their account from another instance to post here...

https://spankbang.com/83z48/video/f+010

The vid has everything I want. Dry humping, swimsuits, femdom.

Tinder and any other platform owned by Match Group is just as bad.

Had a lady I connected with on Okcupid go psycho on me a few months back and bombard me with harassing messages across multiple accounts because I wasn't replying to her quickly enough on Telegram. I had to email customer support to get them to ban her. They gave me a month of free premium as an apology.

Premium confirmed my suspicions. Nearly all of my matches were ladies from different continents who were spoofing their location - either to pull off love scams (easily identified when you run a GIS/Tineye search and find out their pics have been stolen from social media) or to find a Western spouse and the means to a green card.

I don't bring this up out of any kind of prejudice. I just don't want a long-distance relationship with a woman who lives thousands of miles away on another continent, and I hate it when people break the TOS to try and match with others halfway across the world. Did a LDR with a Japanese uni student before and she ditched my ass the moment she finally came to the UK on a transfer year. Even then in the event that it does work out, I also know people who have married foreign spouses and have been intensively grilled and interrogated about their relationship by the Home Office. I don't want to have to hand the British government months/years worth of private messages because they're trying to crack down on mail order brides.

Match really do not give a flying fuck about policing their platforms. The platforms that don't have a website and force you to use a smartphone app are downright unusable because you can't really do a Tineye or Google Image Search to filter out fake profiles and find out how many Instagram and Weibo profiles they've stolen pics from.

Same here. I also find the thought of a guy losing control and nutting in his pants hot.