OpenStars

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[–] OpenStars@discuss.online 5 points 1 year ago

I think Reddit is more exclusively USA-focused, with side-notes of UK and others, whereas Lemmy is more global. Therefore in Reddit that was more left-leaning than rightwardly so you mostly saw divisions between like young people vs. older ones - e.g. should a downvote be for something you don't personally like or something that does not add to the conversation.

Like if someone submitted a guide for how to fix a toilet (to a let's say home fixing sub) and it started to go viral then would you downvote it bc you don't want to see that in your r/popular feed, or upvote or leave it alone bc it at least matches what it set out to be? Which really reflected the slide of the platform away from its roots as a forum board and into true "social media", where interactions are monetized and hence the more the better, never mind that more downvotes leads to less people willing to submit actual content.

Although that's over now, as the social media aspect won, so it's all just that now, and therefore for most of us here, not worth visiting any longer. i.e. if I left the Fediverse, I still would not return there.

But here, I think it's your block list, because I see a HUGE diversity of opinions. e.g. there are (a few) right-wing conservatives who actively support genocide so long as it is their own side doing it, and there are extremist left-wing tankies who also actively support genocide so long as it is their own side doing it, and too there are blue maga who soft-core support the doing of genocide so long as it is their side that needs to win, plus there are a few who even don't support genocide, imagine that. :-P

I see a lot less of those extremes though after blocking hexbear.net, lemmygrad.ml, and finally I added Lemmy.ml. Also, while places such as conservative@lemm.ee exist and are active, they are tiny.

[–] OpenStars@discuss.online 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Unless you are already retired, and often even then, for you personally it has an extremely good chance of getting better, even if only slightly. More life experience often translates into ability to convert new things heading your way into less suckiness. Pro-Tip: lean into that for even better results - get married, or perhaps divorced, ditch Windows if you haven't already, etc. Don't let life pass you by - enjoy it!:-)

But the trajectory won't be as high as it would have been previously for someone a few years ago, and for all of us overall that trajectory will be objectively worse. Especially minorities bc fuck them all, apparently - says the Leopards Surely Won't Eat My Face Off party. Oh well - anyone who thinks life is supposed to be fair hasn't been paying attention (especially since the late 70s with the advent of corporations that can shirk legal duties that the rest of us cannot, like they can die and in so doing offer massive payouts to the board members at the expense of the customers, etc.). On the other hand, as the suffering increases comes the possibility of finally waking up and doing something meaningful - apes together strong. In the meantime, refer back to the first paragraph, for now.

[–] OpenStars@discuss.online 39 points 1 year ago (8 children)

Use the block button early and often if you value your sanity. Some people exist in the Fediverse solely to fuck up others' day. Some entire instances almost seem dedicated to it even, or at least I can see no functional difference from where I stand. Reddit doesn't have instances, so that part is new, but it's not hard, it's in your settings -> blocks -> scroll down to instance. Doing this can improve your experience here by like 99%. You'll discover over time which ones you want to block.

[–] OpenStars@discuss.online 14 points 1 year ago

People support such things, as e.g. gun control (90% of us including registered members of the NRA), but donors oppose them. Therefore I suspect we will see the donors chosen over their constituents, as has happened every time as of late 😢.

Even so, this particular battle must be fought - unlike e.g. the one with gun control where it is primarily the children of the poors that are being slaughtered (sorry, it's upsetting but true) - bc this lies at the very foundation of this country, and to not fight it would be suicide for our little "experiment" (multiple hundreds of years going!) in democracy.

[–] OpenStars@discuss.online 5 points 1 year ago

I was going to suggest next time make it a stick instead of a person.

Then I realized it already was. :-P

[–] OpenStars@discuss.online 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

62% acquiesced to the authoritian state propaganda that “in our country, effort is always rewarded."

Ftfy. There is no way to know how they truly feel, only by looking at those brave enough to say so, even on a (presumably) "anonymous" poll.

[–] OpenStars@discuss.online 15 points 1 year ago (2 children)

The effort would be appreciated regardless, assuming there's enough resources to "waste" on such an endeavor.

[–] OpenStars@discuss.online 7 points 1 year ago

Those eyes don't say peace... :-)

[–] OpenStars@discuss.online 2 points 1 year ago

Sigh... yeah. When all, or at least most, of society combines together to say the same exact thing, then little kids in particular tend not to question it. Fortunately some of us continue to learn even later in life.:-) Unfortunately not all of us do.:-( Even so, it's worth the effort to try to share the right way to go. Lately I've been thinking about that poem by Rudyard Kipling, "If—": "If you can keep your head when all about you Are losing theirs...":-)

[–] OpenStars@discuss.online 3 points 1 year ago

Right, you basically cannot block all comments from those instances. Though it does prevent notifications if they reply to you. The only way to avoid wasting your time with them is to block each and every single person that comes along, including every single new one. Which also does nothing to stop them from downvoting you. In short, unless an entire instance defederates from them and you join it - which none of the well-known instances do, and it is not entirely so trivial to spin up your own - there is nothing that an individual user can do about the situation, atm.

And sometimes I even have enjoyable conversations with people on those instances - still, those are in the extreme minority (fewer than 1/1000) and I would choose to sacrifice that to have the option to walk away entirely, if I could. Especially since I could always have an alt account elsewhere to get the best of both worlds. As they also do in turn (several have openly admitted this), to get around the instance defederations.

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