Oka

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[–] Oka@sopuli.xyz 15 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Knowing you are different (i.e. "atypical") is the first step to resolving it. Perhaps you do react more strongly than others. If you are open to learning, practice, and change, you can work towards being better (and being happier).

When your emotions react strongly, do not do the thing your body wants to do. Stop, walk away from the situation, and allow your emotions to settle. Don't dwell on it and reignite your emotions. Then, take some time to answer:

  • Who/What made you react?
  • Why did you react?
  • How could it have been prevented?

Finally, consider this: If your answer was "They did this" or "They caused me to act out", imagine what you would answer if the roles were switched.

Emotions cloud our judgements. It is important to NOT react on them, and instead reflect on them when we have returned to a neutral state.

[–] Oka@sopuli.xyz 31 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Out of 100 births, approximately 2 are intersex. That's more than I was raised to believe.

[–] Oka@sopuli.xyz 19 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Bro your title is misleading.

Indian man upset that the government is forcing him to buy a new car

Your title makes the man sound like he's complaining about his wife

[–] Oka@sopuli.xyz 8 points 1 month ago

Harlem Shake

[–] Oka@sopuli.xyz 3 points 1 month ago

Im curious how that's possible. They did at least censor the text chat to hell

[–] Oka@sopuli.xyz 2 points 1 month ago

Genuine question, how often does WayMo make mistakes like this? I recall a situation where a bunch were stuck at an intersection

[–] Oka@sopuli.xyz 3 points 1 month ago

Im not a hiker, but yes

[–] Oka@sopuli.xyz 12 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Ok, as pictured it wouldn't work, however, if the drill ends rotated independently, the fork was fixed to the drill, and the rotation of the motor rotated both drill bits via a tiny joint inside the fork, this would be pretty neat

[–] Oka@sopuli.xyz 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

That's Australian for "Oh no"

[–] Oka@sopuli.xyz 2 points 1 month ago

I just woke up.

[–] Oka@sopuli.xyz 2 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I guess everyone can trademark 1, 2, or 3 letter names now.

Let me try:

  • OKA
  • OO
  • MM
  • L
  • F
  • KX
  • FWF

There, they are now my Intellectual Property

[–] Oka@sopuli.xyz 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Let me know if any of these look good to you (im not sponsored):

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You can find a cheap mouse, keyboard, speakers on Amazon (if Amazon ships there).

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