Novamdomum

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[–] Novamdomum@fedia.io 8 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I was having an argument on Discord a few months ago with someone who always turns every conversation into a heated political debate. I knew they were about to do it again and that it would take hours to extract myself from the conversation. I popped open ChatGPT, pasted all their words in and asked it to argue (politely) for me. To this day it's one of the most satisfying things I've ever done. They kept getting madder and madder and more frustrated. Unfortunately another person in the chat spotted what I was doing and outed me but it was so much fun while it lasted lol. I also noticed the shouty political one stopped bullying everyone in the chat after that. I guess because they thought it might happen again. Fun times :)

[–] Novamdomum@fedia.io 19 points 3 months ago

So true! The worst part is that I can be blissfully unaware that I hate someone but then something reminds me of them and my brain goes "Whelp.... time to speed load every single feeling about this person in the next 5 seconds".

[–] Novamdomum@fedia.io 6 points 3 months ago

Which end do you eat with? :P

[–] Novamdomum@fedia.io 9 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I think if you can access that still part of yourself that knows what is true and right for you then you already must have a strong sense of what you need to do. You have the right to surround yourself with people who love you for what you are right now, not for what they hope you might become in the future to suit their needs. I get a sense from how you wrote this post that you have an inkling that this relationship cannot give you what you want. Also, that it cannot give your partner what they want. Maybe it's just that you've arrived in that fork in the road where your journey together is simply at an end. I hope you find a way to love your neurospicyness and that you find someone who will enjoy it with you.

[–] Novamdomum@fedia.io 30 points 3 months ago

Clearly its the tines of 2 and the handle of 5. Anything else is madness.

My reasoning is quite simple. The tines on the No.2 fork are longer than the others. Long things are often associated with quality, status and refinement (Long fingers, long lashes, long legs etc.). The extra length suggest dexterity and precision.

Conversely the comparatively stubby tines of the No.1 fork would likely suit a toddler or an adult who isn't allowed near pointy things without supervision. Similarly the tines of the No.5 fork suggest that this utensil was born wanting to be a spoon but then was made into a fork at the last minute. This hypothesis is further supported by the rounded end of it's handle which would suit a spoon rather well.

Numbers 3 and 4 forks are usually, in my experience found in establishments where you help yourself to cutlery from big pots with grubby labels marked "SPOONS", "KNIVES" and "FORKS".

Now to the handles. Although the tines of the No.2 fork are pleasing, it then lets itself down with a handle that widens to the point of absurdity. Perhaps the thought was that it would help the extremely aged keep a firm grip while spooning tapioca past loose dentures.

So a cleaned up fork made from an amalgam of the refined tines of No. 2 fork and the pleasantly rounded handle of No. 5 are the only option for any adult with reasonable dexterity.

[–] Novamdomum@fedia.io 3 points 3 months ago

So... will this mean we'll finally be able to restart as a new player in the offline mode? I've wanted to start from scratch with TC2 for ever. It's been such a frustration that you can't have more than one player profile per Ubisoft account.

[–] Novamdomum@fedia.io 1 points 3 months ago

Yeah it kinda does. It's this weird sandfishing minigame though with a kind of claw thing that you throw out. Nowhere near as fun as the fishing in Portia imho.

[–] Novamdomum@fedia.io 3 points 3 months ago (2 children)

The games I've really enjoyed fishing in so far have been:

My Time At Portia Palia Spiritfarer

Of those 3 I've easily spent the most time in Portia. I really love the fishing in that game and when you get the super valuable fish you really feel like you earnt it :)

[–] Novamdomum@fedia.io 11 points 3 months ago

It took me a while to fully realise the implications of marriage. At first I thought it was about commitment and love etc. but legally you are literally taking two people and turning them into one. One, glued together, single being that can own things jointly (like a house for example).

In the eyes of the law you become one being that can do things like have a joint bank account. It's both really handy, but also a massive risk if things go south. It has some huge implications that not everyone realises too. For example, here in the UK (might be the same elsewhere but I'm not sure) you can own a house jointly BUT if one of you becomes legally incapacitated (like having a serious stroke or something) and needs state care the state will drain YOUR assets to pay for your care costs until you only have about £15k left! (last I checked. It might be more now).

That includes FORCING you to sell your house to pay for care costs! To avoid that you literally have to change your ownership status to something called "Tenants in Common" because then you both own 50% of the house and the state can't sell half a house so that protects you. They're aggressive about it too so if you switch to Tenants in Common straight after the incapacitating event, they can claim "deliberate deprivation" and revert you back to joint owners.

That's just one example of the minefield you need to be aware of. The good stuff is definitely financial though. Everything is suddenly half price for example because people tend to share 50/50 in all the costs. That's really helpful! :)

[–] Novamdomum@fedia.io 2 points 3 months ago

Feels like we're closing in on a time when remaking something like Toy Story, or any animation, would be as simple as writing a prompt. "Remake Toy Story but it turns out Slinky Dog is an evil mastermind who engineered Woody's fall from grace".

[–] Novamdomum@fedia.io -1 points 3 months ago (2 children)
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