When I was more mentally ill, I was unable to reach out to my friends because I was terrified I would be intruding by texting them and that they couldn't possibly actually like me. While that was pretty extreme, I think a lot of people have more mild versions of that going on.
Now I'm the reaching out guy, and I hold it as like, "I'm filling my social niche by being the stable one rn"
iPhone users are a minority, so it's more common to see tribalistic slap fights where people rep their preferred corporate overlord. Like, there's a power imbalance one way where iPhones are a status symbol, but imbalance the other way where Androids are more normal.