Muckle

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I used to be a stripper, ask me anything in c/askmeanything@lemmy.ca
[–] Muckle@aussie.zone 2 points 4 weeks ago

Not really, onlyfans may take over porn but it wouldn't affect strip clubs. Onlyfans is all about pornography while strip clubs are more about the club it's self. The strippers are just the sprinkles on top. Onlyfans is pernident as everything you post is on the Internet forever while being a stripper can be temporary like it was for me.

I have Anti-Social Personally Disorder, AMA in c/askmeanything@lemmy.ca
[–] Muckle@aussie.zone 1 points 4 weeks ago

I couldn't, I'm too young

I have Anti-Social Personally Disorder, AMA in c/askmeanything@lemmy.ca
[–] Muckle@aussie.zone 2 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago) (1 children)

Not really. I don't think anyone gets chills from listening to music.

I used to be a stripper, ask me anything in c/askmeanything@lemmy.ca
[–] Muckle@aussie.zone 2 points 1 month ago

I don't know. Honestly, I don't think there is any strippers who do it completely naked. It's too basic and boring. You gonna wear some sexy underwear and some big boots. Body glitter is also a nice touch.

I used to be a stripper, ask me anything in c/askmeanything@lemmy.ca
[–] Muckle@aussie.zone 3 points 1 month ago

How many of the women you knew while working were also working as escorts?

Quite a few actually. There is quite a lot of overlap between stripping and other types of sex work. As you said "once you can be comfortable taking your clothes off and doing a lap dance for a stranger, it’s not a very big stretch to go to escorting."

I also knew a lot of strippers who were also dancers and gymnasts.

I used to be a stripper, ask me anything in c/askmeanything@lemmy.ca
[–] Muckle@aussie.zone 2 points 1 month ago

Not really. The customers vibe was always the same. Just dance in front of them 98% naked and laugh at they're goofy pick up lines. That was about it

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[–] Muckle@aussie.zone 0 points 1 month ago

I don't see the problem here. In the real world you just come across people you disagree with politically. You can't agree with everyone on everything. You just have to learn to defend your beliefs.

I used to be a stripper, ask me anything in c/askmeanything@lemmy.ca
[–] Muckle@aussie.zone 9 points 1 month ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago) (1 children)

Funny you say that because I actually did. I once ran into a bunch of other people I knew from uni. They just thought it was funny and ask for a dance.

It was pretty awkward running into them after that. I told them to promise not to tell anyone and to they're credit they seemed to have not done that.

I used to be a stripper, ask me anything in c/askmeanything@lemmy.ca
[–] Muckle@aussie.zone 6 points 1 month ago

My bad. Thread wasn't doing that well at first so I thought I would leave it but I ended up leaving it for too long.

I used to be a stripper, ask me anything in c/askmeanything@lemmy.ca
[–] Muckle@aussie.zone 4 points 1 month ago

Not really. Just took some getting used to the environment. That's all. Wasn't even that different from any other day there.

I used to be a stripper, ask me anything in c/askmeanything@lemmy.ca
[–] Muckle@aussie.zone 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Yeah, that's just what it's like. Dealing with creeps is just a part of the job. Heck, it's the main demographic. I've had people give me lewd compliments, slap my behind, awkwardly flirt with me or just try to pay for sex, wolf whistle, randomly get boners and try to hide them/feeling one during a lap dance. It's quite literally a hard job.

I used to be a stripper, ask me anything in c/askmeanything@lemmy.ca
[–] Muckle@aussie.zone 5 points 1 month ago

No, Australia

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I used to be a stripper, ask me anything (aussie.zone)
 

I worked as a stripper from 19 to 21, ask me anything.

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My friends found out I have schizophrenia and now want nothing to do with me (aussie.zone)
 

About last month I venting to my friends just about life and things and I made the mistake of admitting that I needed money for a good therapist and they were like "do you really need one though?" and I had to explain that I'm am a person who deals with schizophrenia and I need help with dealing with seeing/hearing things and coping with my condition.

I remember how they all when silent. I don't usually talk about my mental health problems as it's personal but as it came up and they asked me so I just told them straight. They just asked some questions at first like "how long have you had it" and "if I'm hearing things rn" etc etc before I changed the subject to something else. Looking back I really regret doing so because in the following weeks they would text me less, ignore me on the ground chat, invite me to less gatherings and not respond to me when I message them. Don't get me wrong they don't completely ghost me but they don't talk/hang out with me as much as they used to. In past month I've met them like three times even though I used to meet them weekly.

Honestly, I'm more disappointed then anything else. Not just with them but with society as a whole. I hate how we all pride ourselves with being mental health positive but when it comes to the non wholesome mental health issues like schizophrenia, NPD, compulsive lying, ASPD then it's a completely different story. I love my friend group but I hate how they all dumped me especially when it's the number one thing I'm most self conscious about. We were supposed to be open with each other but now they've all left me just because I told them about one of my personal problems.

Don't get me wrong I still love my friends but I just need them to understand that none of us are perfect and I'm just a normal person who has some problems like everyone else. It doesn't make me a dangerous person. Schizophrenia isn't something that can be cured it's just a part of me I have to live with. I just need some help with dealing with the voices and seeing faces on things. That's all. I'm not a danger to no one in any way. I'm planning on confronting them about this soon and just telling them all this. I don't know know how I'll go about it but I just need to make them understand because I really like what we have.

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I am a 25 year old woman was diagnosed with ASPD at age 20, ask me anything

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I'm worried about my past catching up with me (aussie.zone)
 

So a few years ago I worked as a stripper for like a year and a half to pay for some things. Looking back I really regret doing it. I'm always about people finding out about it in the future and it effecting my employability. So far nobody except a few friends know about and I hope to keep it that way but I'm worried that in the future it could come back to bite me.

Is there anyway I can keep this thing permanently hidden and if not then what should I do in the future if someone finds out? Like, how badly would it effect my image and is there anything I can do about it? What do I say to people of they find out?

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