Mothra

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[–] Mothra@mander.xyz -1 points 3 months ago

Yeah I'm not arguing that both suck, if that's the point. It's just the way OP presented both as equal options what didn't check out with me.

[–] Mothra@mander.xyz 10 points 3 months ago

It's a reasonable question but it's unreasonable to insist without providing a reason.

[–] Mothra@mander.xyz 2 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Sounds to me like you need to first figure out what you want with her. Do you just want sex, or do you want more? You open this post saying you like her, you carry on showing us your concerns, but at the end you're in just for sex- this is confusing. Not that it changes my life or my answer - literally, it's on you to draw the line and figure out where you stand.

Once you figured out what you want, you will know how to proceed. The only reason you don't know what to do now is because of that.

If I were in your shoes, I'd encourage her to get professional help, and I'd run away. I know, I wouldn't be able to give her the support she needs, but, you may be different. Trying to change someone like that sounds like a very tough job and I know I'd be dragged down with them. She may not realize it, but going on about self pitying "people just want me for sex", "nobody likes me", etc, and going suicidal for it is often a manipulation tactic - it can be subconscious.

But the choice is yours. You just need to make up your mind about you and her.

[–] Mothra@mander.xyz 5 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I think you meant to post this in Unpopular Opinions

[–] Mothra@mander.xyz 4 points 3 months ago (1 children)
[–] Mothra@mander.xyz 5 points 3 months ago (4 children)
[–] Mothra@mander.xyz 2 points 3 months ago

Closest to nothing, it's just the original app developed for Lemmy. I don't think it's closest to reddit at all. I thought you were complaining about Lemmy not having an app.

[–] Mothra@mander.xyz 2 points 3 months ago (2 children)

Lemmy's app is Jerboa. You can change the icon to look like whatever you want, that's true for any app btw. Tough to compare it to a centralized platform though. Watermelons vs bananas.

[–] Mothra@mander.xyz 5 points 3 months ago (8 children)
[–] Mothra@mander.xyz 19 points 3 months ago

Yup I can relate with N4 100%. Not only a degree, but two years experience in the field. And yet here I am, with a customer service role. I've been searching for work for two years now. It sucks

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