Honestly, all of the new bucket of frequently parroted opinions only make sense if you don't pay attention. I saw one recently calling SFA "edgy teenage drama with bullying". "Edgy" is the furthest thing from what SFA is. It's the biggest let's-work-together-and-support-our-friends piece of media I might have ever seen. It's comfort food.
I have to assume these people go straight from the ragebait youtubers to reddit/lemmy comments without ever stopping to watch the show.
EDIT: omg there's literally someone in this thread calling it "dark and edgy".
Well written. Earth's utopia seems to exist (or not) as is relevant to the plot at hand. But if there is one thing Star Trek drills into it's messaging over and over and over again, it's that the work, the brutally difficult work to get one centimeter closer to that "impossible" utopia is what motivates starfleet.