At the same time, attacking an organized effort to do that thing we're repeatedly told is our only option ("vote with your wallet") by pointing out that some people have no options isn't something done in good faith.
No one is expecting people with no ability to shop elsewhere to do so, nor to starve. It's a strawman argument.
Yeah, if we want to get people off of centralized, private social media sites, we really need Patreon integration for a range of fedi services. It's one of the significant pipelines for Discord adoption.
Lemmy/*bin, PeerTube, Matrix, what have you all have immediate drop-in replacement value. Other services, like Mastodon, don't have the same level of potential segmentation and exclusivity inherent in how they're built, but it'd be a way to set up paid access servers.
These kinds of gateways are important for actually making the fediverse seem like a viable alternative. Right now, the incentives are driving people toward closed gardens and destroying the open internet.