I'm still a little rocked by my fellow AuDHD friend that I yap too much (exactly like this meme - my yap is the stuff outside of the story) and that's why she stopped calling with me.
I became a lot more conscious of when I start to yap and started trying to get things back on track but it's been an uphill battle.
Then like 6 months later she clarified she pretty much doesn't call with anyone else anymore and not just me, but in person she's totally cool with me yapping..
Like woman, yes I have started improving myself in that aspect but ouch
I've been on Linux for going on 10 years, went through just about all the major and moderate distros out there and the past two years I've just been using mint on my study laptops (in particular LMDE for stability) and it's completely fine for me.