Johnny101

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[–] Johnny101@lemmy.world 1 points 26 minutes ago

I’ve been planning to switch to GrapheneOS soon, though my carrier (Verizon) makes it kinda difficult.

[–] Johnny101@lemmy.world 1 points 27 minutes ago

We weren’t the closest friends, and we fought too much anyways.

[–] Johnny101@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

Like other people have suggested, maybe get a second phone (one of those really cheap ones with play Services) and use that for that stuff, and keep your main personal phone google-free.

[–] Johnny101@lemmy.world 2 points 2 hours ago

I think Linux phones will gain some real traction within five years. Last I heard, KDE is putting great effort into making apps for Plasma Mobile

[–] Johnny101@lemmy.world 0 points 2 hours ago (2 children)

Someone actually said that to me the other day. (I am no longer friends with that person). I think its because people (especially americans) see that almost everyone is using iPhone so their tiny social media influenced brains say “If EveRy oNe USes ipHonE it beTteR”. Meanwhile us sensible people just sit here internally screaming.

[–] Johnny101@lemmy.world 2 points 2 hours ago

Yes, banking apps, streaming apps, even some shopping apps. This has been a problem for a long time. Sometimes its for “security” reasons and sometimes its simply because the app uses Play Service APIs. Another issue on de-googled systems is push notifications, though that is often fixed through alternates like Unified Push

[–] Johnny101@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago

I feel like It’d be mostly clueless kids, because a lot people who don’t understand the psychological risks are probably still scared of AI and don’t want it in their lives. (At least in my experience.)

[–] Johnny101@lemmy.world 1 points 3 hours ago (2 children)

True…. I heard GrapheneOS is having trouble porting to the Pixel 10

[–] Johnny101@lemmy.world 5 points 4 hours ago (8 children)

Google’s developer verification will only run on mainstream Android with play services. It’s not supposed won’t be running in standard AOSP so the easiest solution would be to switch to a custom ROM like GrapheneOS.

[–] Johnny101@lemmy.world 19 points 4 hours ago (2 children)

Do it you fucking orange, do it.

But don’t be surprised when half your population moves to a better country.

 

friend.com I’m sorry but I don’t think anyone is idiot enough to wear a device that is always listening to you and talking to you pretending to be your friend. This is a disaster waiting to happen. If social media was killing mental health, imagine what this will do.

[–] Johnny101@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago

Not more than 20. I am very conscious of how many tabs I have open

[–] Johnny101@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

They do have a history of mental health problems. Childhood trauma from abusive grandparents, severe chronic insomnia, and panic attacks at random times. What concerns me is that they're willing to talk about their trauma but not whatevers going on right now. And I have no idea what's happening, I only know that they're acting off, its getting in the way of thier normal life, and that they dont want to tell me about it.

 

I wouldn't normally go to the internet with something like this. My therapist is sick and I cant talk to my only close friend right now.

Last Monday I had a particularly bad day, so I started mindlessly ranting at my closest friend, something I normally do to deal with stress, they're good at listening. However, it took them hours to reply to my message, and when they did, they simply said "sorry." I knew something was off, it wasn't them to reply with a single one word message after hours of silence.

Fast forward Tuesday afternoon, I was a little concerned about them but mostly fine. I was busy with work anyways. Then they texted me saying that they hadn't been at work for Monday and Tuesday, and but otherwise "Its nothing, Dw about me". At that point I was worried sick and I almost had a full breakdown.

I late texted them asking if they were really okay and they kept insisting they were. Ofc I didn't believe them, because they were acting very off and it didn't make sense that they didn't want to tell me. We've exchanged very personal secrets in the past.

Its now Wednesday. I restrained myself from talking to them all day, figuring they needed space. I can't find a way to distract myself, and my paranoid brain is trying to come up with every possible worst case scenario. The stress is consuming me, I barely feel anything outside the situation with my friend, I cant be productive with anything, I have really high blood pressure and intense heart rate.

Last night around 1 am I ended my conversation with my friend simply saying "Thank you" after I told them how much I care. I haven't talked to them all day, and if I dont say anything Ill be completely consumed by the stress. I figure I want to say something like "how are you doing" though they've made it obvious that they dont want to tell me about it. If I start with something more innocent like "did you sleep last night" they could take it the same way. One would say to speak from the heart but in that case all I want to say is "I love you" which could get awkward because we're opposite genders but really just friends. I just want advice really. I can deal with the stress, as hard as it may be. What should I tell them? How can I not push them to talk about something they dont want to while still helping them?

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