being desperate for "relief" somehow makes men more attractive to women, hormonally
It's true!
JennaR8r
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Yeah it would basically be an anti addiction approach for me. Addiction runs in my family and we get addicted to everything remotely pleasurable. So I've spent my whole life saying no to alcohol & drugs & cigarettes, and since I cant find a suitable companion I have to say no to orgasms too ๐คท๐ผโโ๏ธ For me it feels empowering.
It's my own subjective experience. Masturbating is effortless immediate gratification that turns me into a reclusive hermit.
But every time I abstain for a month or so, I become a real person who participates in life & wants to connect with people. *
The difference is undeniable.
I'm not telling you what to do and I'm not telling anyone else in the world what I think they should do. I'm telling you my own subjective experience and my own choice.
*Yesterday I had enough courage to approach a super hot guy doing pushups on the beach ๐ฅฐ I had seen him there before doing yoga in the same place a couple weeks earlier & fell instantly in love because I'm a yoga girl too so when I saw him again yesterday my inner fires were finally burning at normal level, no shyness or low self-esteem yesterday for a change ๐ We chit-chatted, he likes me ๐
Yeah but every time I cum alone, it reinforces the alone-ness. I'm sick of self-perpetuating loneliness. Going out into the world with hunger & ambition & angst feels empowering right now.
I'm a woman.
Edit: aww he deleted his comment ๐คฃ
He said: "Stop being a pussy. Man up and castrate yourself."
Which would've been scathing to a man. But it lands hilariously when said to a woman ๐คฃ
Well I'm a woman and I've talked to some men too who agree that when we masturbate it tends to make us turn socially inward & diminishes our drive to reach out to other people.
Whereas sexual frustration compels us to go out into the world with a sense of hunger & ambition, seeking social interaction & activities.
It's the lifestyle I've chosen because after years of suffering all aspects of this mortal hell we call life, I'd rather feel paragraph 2 than paragraph 1.
When I'm alone I eat salads with my bare hands if there's no dressing on it. But when I'm in proper company with people I have to socially adapt and I'm required to use utensils.
Aah yes chocolate is a lovely reward for not stabbing anyone.
You get it!