Hyperreality

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[–] Hyperreality@kbin.social 50 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (2 children)

Yep.

Andrea Dworkin:

“Right-wing women have surveyed the world: they find it a dangerous place. ... They see that traditional marriage means selling to one man, not hundreds: the better deal. ... Right-wing women see that within the system in which they live they cannot make their bodies their own, but they can agree to privatized male ownership: keep it one-on-one, as it were. They know that they are valued for their sex— their sex organs and their reproductive capacity—and so they try to up their value: through cooperation, manipulation, conformity; through displays of affection or attempts at friendship; through submission and obedience; and especially through the use of euphemism—“femininity, ” “total woman, ” “good, ” “maternal instinct, ” “motherly love. ” Their desperation is quiet; they hide their bruises of body and heart; they dress carefully and have good manners; they suffer, they love God, they follow the rules. They see that intelligence displayed in a woman is a flaw, that intelligence realized in a woman is a crime. They see the world they live in and they are not wrong. They use sex and babies to stay valuable because they need a home, food, clothing. ... Male violence acts directly on the girl through her father or brother or uncle or any number of male professionals or strangers, as it did and does on her mother, and she too is forced to learn to conform in order to survive. A girl may, as she enters adulthood, repudiate the particular set of males with whom her mother is allied, run with a different pack as it were, but she will replicate her mother’s patterns in acquiescing to male authority within her own chosen set. Using both force and threat, men in all camps demand that women accept abuse in silence and shame, tie themselves to hearth and home with rope made of self-blame, unspoken rage, grief, and resentment.”

See also: right-wing women who are obsessed about trans women being rapists, drag queens and bathrooms. Obviously trans women raping women is incredibly rare. But they're a 'safe' and acceptable target for victimised and often traumatised women. Women who are too weak to criticise or attack the men who actually hurt them. Eg. JK Rowling is a victim of sexual and domestic abuse. The perpetrator was her husband. Instead of attacking straight men, she spends all day going on about trans women.

You see this kind of psychology in most (quasi-)fascists. It's sadomasochistic. Kiss the boot of those who opress you, hold those you hold to be below you in contempt and treat them accordingly. Of course, in reality right wing women have common cause with all the people they hate. Just like most right wing men have more in common with a poor black trans sex worker, than a billionaire.

As you say, it's hard to feel sorry for them. They're sabotaging themselves, their gender and their class. They're actively hurting those who could be their allies. It's partly self-preservation, but it's also vanity. They lie to themselves that they're not (fellow) victims.

TLDR: humans are weird.

[–] Hyperreality@kbin.social 1 points 2 years ago

L'enfer c'est les autres.

[–] Hyperreality@kbin.social 37 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (4 children)

Honestly, when it comes to duolingo, you're probably best off sticking to Spanish or stuff like that.

I tried out a course in my native language, and it really wasn't great beyond the basics. Loads of mistakes.

And if you're going to be paying for that, you might as well buy (or pirate) a proper Spanish course.

[–] Hyperreality@kbin.social 22 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I’ve been repeatedly told by Republicans that he’s definitely not a racist.

Time for that Sartre quote:

“Never believe that [they] are completely unaware of the absurdity of their replies. They know that their remarks are frivolous, open to challenge. But they are amusing themselves, for it is their adversary who is obliged to use words responsibly, since he believes in words. The [racists] have the right to play. They even like to play with discourse for, by giving ridiculous reasons, they discredit the seriousness of their interlocutors. They delight in acting in bad faith, since they seek not to persuade by sound argument but to intimidate and disconcert. If you press them too closely, they will abruptly fall silent, loftily indicating by some phrase that the time for argument is past.”

[–] Hyperreality@kbin.social 4 points 2 years ago (2 children)

You have enough money for a pair of bolt cutters.

[–] Hyperreality@kbin.social 10 points 2 years ago

Tinder's always been used for sex work.

[–] Hyperreality@kbin.social 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

You seem to have misread my comment.

[–] Hyperreality@kbin.social 5 points 2 years ago (3 children)

TBF they complain about being censored even if they haven't been banned, so they'd simply keep complaining about being censored. No change at all.

[–] Hyperreality@kbin.social 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

My money's on kompromat.

[–] Hyperreality@kbin.social 43 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

Yep.

They're effectively imposing American religiously inspired sensitivies on the rest of the world. Reeks of cultural imperialism. Truly toxic stuff.

Imagine if Microsoft was a Saudi company that banned users who engaged with gay content or forced American users to comply with Muslim values. People would be in an uproar.

This really isn't that different.

Another reason to buy games on GOG.

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