EggInDisguise

joined 1 week ago

EVERYBODY SHUT UP!

THIS ~~KIM'S~~ TOTALLYNOTSPEZ'S GOT ~~TWO PIPS~~ MULTIPLE POSTS!

And I am all about that trek content.

[–] EggInDisguise@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 3 days ago (15 children)

Out at a karaoke night that's winding down with friends from the LGBT group, and in full girlmode (minus makeup) outside around people for the first time ever! I wore a skirt out a few days ago and decided I wanted more.

Now I want to burn all my boy clothes and never wear masculine shit again....

But I'm having a blast out right now and that's what's important!

[–] EggInDisguise@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 3 days ago (1 children)

That would be great!

Oooh super cute!

[–] EggInDisguise@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 3 days ago (3 children)

I'll shoot you a DM but right now we are out at a karaoke bar so it might be some between responses!

As much as it sucks to talk about, more open discussions about such thingd would be great, but that feels like something for a separate community. It's definitely something many would rather not discuss.

No problem, girl! Good luck finding something!

Don't mess with El-Aurians. They've got freaky spacetime powers they don't like to talk about. They tend to listen more than talk.

Why do you think Q looked like he was on edge? He was clearly wary of whatever Guinan could do.

They may not be on par with the Q Continuum, but you don't need to overpower a bear to make it bleed.

[–] EggInDisguise@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Oh I will be easily 100x cooler than my mom ever was.

My spouse and I never intended to have kids, so we are basically becoming the surrogate moms several of our LGBT group wished they had.

Genetics might suck, but we can be cool moms regardless!

[–] EggInDisguise@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 3 days ago (5 children)

In my defence I was still new to everything and it was waaaaaaay before I learned to accept myself so I just went with what I had on hand instead of buying something.

I'm glad you mentioned the kt tape, it totally slipped my mind!

I actually bought some, but didn't think things through with the width. Since I don't exactly like poking around down there, I may have underestimated how wide it needed to be even as a gr*wer, and am just using strips overlapped for now.

I've been looking around the interwebs for cheap wide rolls (but recognized brands, I don't trust cheap unknown adhesives for skin contact, ecpeically on sensitive skin) but they still seem a little expensive. I just haven't found the right place!

Also I've not tucked with the kt tape for extended periods, although it is a much smoother profile that I adore, I have yet to find a way to tuck that I can sit stand and walk around comfortably all day. It would be really nice today since I am wearing leggings and we are going to a karaoke place tonight. I don't plan on getting up in front of people, but I guess the best way to say it is I have more confidence in myself if I feel like nobody would notice.

[–] EggInDisguise@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 3 days ago (3 children)

Lol I am just glad they're a bit of a pack-rat, and they've got a couple bags of "old clothes", some never worn, gifts etc, they've been meaning to donate, but once we found out about an LGBT group that hosts a "free market" where you basically bring donations (or not if you don't have any) and browse for things you might need. It's been pretty much a clothing swap for all the trans members lol

I'm just lucky they canceled the last two meetings, or I wouldn't have anything left. Sucks they canceled this month though, I would have loved to go. I've got a bunch of clothing I never plan on wearing and some of the transmascs in the group are close to my size, one of whom explicitly said they wanted to find some shorts like the ones I had on at the time.

Sorry I tend to ramble....

Maybe you could find a foam push up bra at a thrift store, and might be able to utilize it? Worth a try!

[–] EggInDisguise@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 3 days ago (8 children)

I tried tucking with shuddersduct tape when I was younger. That put me off things for so long just from association. (tried with uncklockable tuck kit which uses proper body adhesives and breathable cloth, it's just taking some figuring out how to do so comfortably and I've only broken it out a couple times)

I have a rather tight one I use for now, just something cheap from amaz*n, but I'm planning on buying some proper concealing panties from an Etsy (leolines) store soon.

It's great being able to wear leggings and skirts now, and I cannot wait for a properly sized, tailored pair to come! They're more expensive, but worth it from everyone I've heard from.

I'm on the heavier side, so a little extra isn't uncommon, but I still don't like seeing it, and having the panties to keep the girls in line has been so wonderful.

You rock that fit, btw!

[–] EggInDisguise@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 3 days ago (3 children)

Honestly my biggest fear is that I'll look exactly like my mom.

I'm hoping I look more like my sister, if I have to be shackled by genetics again 😭

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