It's still a different result from air drying, but much better than without.
DerEwigeAtheist
joined 4 years ago
I've picket up my oldest friendship(has been since I've been 3 or 2) and probably want to come out to him when I see him next, I've been hesitant, cause he has a lot of shit going on in his live, and I didn't wanna add to it, but it feels dishonest to not do it.
Last time I visited him he grilled asparagus over open flame on his (immaculately cleaned) gas stove, was a real dudes rock moment. Or I guess I grilled the asparagus, cause the guest gets to do the most fun part of cooking. It was fun, playing with fire always is.
Honestly I am also struggling with that, my hairdresser showed and demonstrated me a diffuser attachment to a hairdryer(some broad head) that sllows one to to use it without destroying the curls. You press that on your head without too much heat. I don't have that so I don't have any practice, and my explanation is from memory, but it worked on me in the hair salon, and she said you can get them for cheap.
No actually, I forgot the name, but is was an old (18th to 19th century, probably) letter novel, set before the french revolution. The protagonist seduces a woman out of boredom and completly ruins her life to entertain himself. Everyone in that novel is a garbage heap of a person
Boys don't cry
Wow, what a horrible little movie, made by a cis-woman, with the trans-man also played by a cis-women.
Also such a boring and surface level way to engage with trans-masculinity. (I haven't and won't watch the movie, this is completly vibes based)
I never got torture porn, the closest I got was a french novel about aristocrats being awful to each other, because they were bored, and because they could. It at least hated men and the nobility, and had stuff to say about that. But if it was just suffering it would have not just been difficult, but also mindlessly boring.
I think internalized cisnormativity, and possibly transphobia(being generous here) keeps them from the actually good positive stuff. Cause they are unwilling or unable to understand it, to see the joy in being trans.
So they read these stories about how being trans is suffering (my assesment of cis literature about trans people)
Honestly, it's most important that the oil is good quality and gets absorbed by the hair, instead of just leaving it oily. I think most hair oils that are not the cheapest available ones are probably fine, you could do some research online for your local market.
I have these gummi spiral/helix hairties. I guess it distributes the force better.
Hairdresser is also a once every six months affair for me. To like cut the tips and stuff.
I just think any voice is better than doing nothing, if I've changed it once I can surely change it again. Like I didn't get a choice on my male voice either, so I am fine with rolling the dice a bit.
I found this audio book of sisters of dorley. A novel I am now evangelizing for. It is the best trans-narrative I've ever read.
I beg anyone here to read it, it's unbelievably good. I think it's now a permanent part of my personality. I'm completly dorleypilled. And I willl probably never recommend it to cis people, I don't think they would like it.
Now I am going to read it again from the start, and also pre-order the paperback
Is 249 pmol/l estrogen a good value, or could it be a bit low? Before hrt I had 53 pmol/l, so at least it quintupled.