Daxter101

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[โ€“] Daxter101@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I started quoting parts of your comment to answer to, and then I noticed I had basically added all of it so >.<

Yeah, all of that is basically how I feel, maybe except being excited about filling in the gap in my missing fashion sense, and the voice training itself. As soon as I get out of where I live right now.

Being amab, honestly, having masc euphoria still confuses the fuck out of me. It kept me thinking "I couldn't be trans" for so long.

But recently, I've started perceiving enby-ness as the option that it is, and it's liberating.

And there's something funny about not realising sooner, and staying locked into thinking binary cis-trans are my only choices.

I mean, my whole life, when I see some stranger on the street and I can't tell their gender on the first glance, I've been instantly attracted to them.

Also, 2 out of my 3 relationships were with (closeted) non-binary people. How did I not get the hint ๐Ÿ˜…

It goes to show, I think, how these things are all emotional realisations, so they happen at their own time, when we get the right experiences. I still feel like my default sense of self is powerlessness, and that really informs how possible, I feel, acting on my options is.

But I try to remind myself that those options are there. Life is not built on predetermined tracks.

Whatever your story is and whatever's ahead of you, good luck to you :3

Same to you ^^ Hope you have fun on your journey as well :D

[โ€“] Daxter101@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I'm assuming it's not dysphoria exactly, it's just a desire. Which, if fulfilled, probably would bring euphoria.

Not op though, so whatever they say when they do say.

[โ€“] Daxter101@lemmy.blahaj.zone 21 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Relax. Women and enbies can have dicks too. Get with the times.

[โ€“] Daxter101@lemmy.blahaj.zone 31 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (11 children)

The Dangerous Criminal (Poor) has always been used to justify asking people to give up their freedoms, in exchange for "safety".

And most of the time, the danger is close to made up. "Reality inspired", if we were to be poetic about it. (Can't say about this case, maybe your city is full of pickpockets unlike mine. But this API sure seems neither opt-in, nor like it's going to be "limited to a select few models" going forward, to me...)

[โ€“] Daxter101@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Well shit.

I knew I was somewhere under the trans umbrella. I knew something on me was queer. But this whole thread, and your post specifically, is just digging me deeper and deeper.

Thanks, and slightly goddamnit.

[โ€“] Daxter101@lemmy.blahaj.zone 53 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (11 children)

While I would find an American tiktok ban funny, this satire/article gives me mixed feelings because the "tiktok ban legislation" they're trying to pass, has some real dystopic shit hidden in it, behind the only slightly dystopic veil of "banning the Chinese".

[โ€“] Daxter101@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Ah yes, the John Oliver effect in action.

[โ€“] Daxter101@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I'm happy for you, but that just isn't the average user experience. The crushing majority of people aren't tech-savvy enough for that. And Reddit, relies on that majority.

For better or worse for everyone involved, it's their experience that makes or breaks the site, and it's them that enshittification takes advantage of.

[โ€“] Daxter101@lemmy.blahaj.zone 26 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I mean, I first thought blood, but I think you're right

[โ€“] Daxter101@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Outlook mobile? I might have misunderstood you, but:

  1. This is not outlook mobile. It's very clearly Phone. (joke aside, it's the Samsung default phone call app)

  2. This app's search works fine.

  3. I do have outlook in this phone, but I almost never use it, and never have searched with it.

  4. I just tried though, for you, and it searches just fine too.

Hope some of this is not useless.

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