Daxter101

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[–] Daxter101@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Did I stutter?

[–] Daxter101@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

I can't advise you on anything that happened on the date itself, those are entirely yours and person-specific.

Assuming that you are not interested in anything with him at all, and just want to properly reject him, I strongly recommend not ghosting him fully, and instead give a kind but firm and clear rejection.

You don't have to go into detail explaining. Especially after mutually keeping distance for that long, it's clear that there was no spark between you, and you can just say something along those lines. "Sorry, I didn't feel the chemistry, and I really feel like we don't match. But I wish you happiness."

For those last couple questions you ask... My opinion is that they're are no rules.

  1. Guys being expected to pay feels slimy to me, but paying itself can be good, like a gift, especially if you reciprocate and pay for something else another time.

  2. The gal asking for what would make her happy in terms of which shop to go to... Should be an absolute given. If you feel like you're not gonna have fun somewhere, recommend the better option, absolutely.

[–] Daxter101@lemmy.blahaj.zone 14 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Sam would literally sell anything necessary he had, in order to keep his dear Frodo from having to do such a thing.

[–] Daxter101@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 year ago

I really just need someone, anyone to cuddle.

[–] Daxter101@lemmy.blahaj.zone 24 points 1 year ago (9 children)

Wait. Didn't they?

[–] Daxter101@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

God, that was a good series

[–] Daxter101@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Re-reading some time ago, this weird manga called Boku girl, more than a decade after first reading it when I was barely a teenager.

Image of page in here, to take less space

The amab main character,

(the eggiest of all eggs that have ever egged, (his body transformed fully into a cis girl's body "Against his Will"(a Loki did it))),

has been trying to process the conflict between his role as a man, against her Joy, and euphoria, and her own desires, all throughout the story.

During an aquarium visit, it's explained to him that Clown Fish can change sex. Pondering that she asks, reading from right to left: whether the fish are happy.

The series drew me in as a child, when I couldn't understand anything at all about me, but this page, years later, made me believe the validity and importance of asking the question, now that many other things are already in place in my mind.

Hit me like a truck.

So now at least some of my close friends, those that truly care about this question, know.

[–] Daxter101@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Please, do not the cat

[–] Daxter101@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 year ago

Okay, hear me out

[–] Daxter101@lemmy.blahaj.zone -4 points 1 year ago

I didn't say literally any of that though.

I said its main function is to distribute violence.

Money mainly exists as a way to decide to whom you will deny service.

The more money you can give, the less people will deny you what you need, and the opposite is true.

[–] Daxter101@lemmy.blahaj.zone 43 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Virtue signalling of exactly this.

This is the intended message.

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