Yeah, women focus more on things like having good hair, clothes and makeup. Men could wear stuff like makeup, but most don't because it's "not manly". On dating sites, women also put more effort into taking flattering photos. It's almost hilarious how many men on dating sites, despite being there to try and attract people, use the ugliest, poorly lit, badly angled, generic selfie. And another huge chunk are sunglasses and ball hat in a car seat (you know the one).
I'm bi and women and find frankly most people attractive, but women are very disproportionately more attractive.
I love Ubuntu. It's by far the most popular distro and that comes with the very helpful perk of it being easier to find support. More users means more people who can answer your questions. It means more people who might fix some issue that annoys you. And all the while, it is a solid and easy to use distro.