Chronicon

joined 1 year ago
[–] Chronicon@hexbear.net 7 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I don't think anyone involved or in my town browses this website

honestly someone probably does but the opsec culture here is fairly strong. I think there's like a tossup chance this is in my area but not much I can do either way besides say "good luck comrade"

[–] Chronicon@hexbear.net 2 points 9 months ago

But I thought to myself, it’s more that people just want to live a normal life. We really don’t want to go back. It was so painful. We’re still all traumatized. Let’s be honest about that. None of us are over it.

honestly? no it wasn't. I didn't love it, it didn't improve my life, certainly, but by and large life just went on, for me and for most people I know. It felt like we were mostly all doing the right thing and cooperating as a society for once, for a brief while. When things really got traumatizing was for immunocompromised people when society just gave up on them

 

Death to america, of course

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submitted 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) by Chronicon@hexbear.net to c/mutual_aid@hexbear.net
 

From the perspective of someone who sometimes has some cash to redistribute on here, I just want to provide some feedback on the semi-recent rule changes in this comm. I don't think all of them are working and I think this comm needs just a little bit more attention to rectify the situation!

First, and I hope least controversial: the sidebar desperately needs to be updated to reflect the actual updated rules.

Second, similarly uncontroversial, the rules should generally actually be enforced. Not enforcing them consistently is worse than not having them in some cases. This ties into several other issues.

Third thing, clarity is needed on whether or not payment details are allowed in the form of not (immediately) personally identifiable usernames. The rule rn says PII/opsec leaks aren't allowed and that payment links aren't, but usernames seems more gray. I thought that usernames weren't allowed at all until I re-read the post, and judging by the variety of different approaches to providing payment details in recent posts, I'm not the only one unsure.

Fourth thing, I think that strongly encouraging people to update their posts when they receive aid is a good thing for helping spread the community's limited aid resources around more where they are needed most. That's good guidance and I wish everyone did it!

Fifth, and to me personally, one of the most important, I am less likely to send money, if I have to effectively dox myself to the poster to do it, and when I have to ask for payment details over DM, that's basically what I'm doing (its trivial to correspond who I am by timing and payment method, even if multiple people do send them money, doubly so over multiple different posts over time). It's one thing for them to know my name or my venmo or whatever, but when they can tie that name to a specific hexbear account I start to go from "keeping the risk in mind" to "I don't think that's a risk I'm willing to take". So while I can understand the urge to not have posters dox themselves, the reverse is also true.

Sixth, as a result of having to DM for payment details (both because of the doxing risk and just the extra steps for both parties), mutual aid posters are currently incentivized to violate or skirt around grey areas of the rules if they want to get more aid. Combined with the lax enforcement/unclear rule, this creates a really sucky situation where people in need are punished monetarily for trying to follow the rules.

Seventh, related to #2/maybe #1 and others, I am of the opinion the comm probably needs another mod or two, it's pretty active and can be a fraught topic when there are disputes, and currently there only seems to be one active mod?

A further revision of the rules to explicitly allow non-doxxing payment methods to be published, followed by an update to the sidebar, would be greatly appreciated tbh. Or something like that. I appreciate all the work done to keep this site safe and functional and such, but these little issues have been nagging at the back of my mind for months now and needed to get out.

Thoughts?

[–] Chronicon@hexbear.net 19 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Is it a matter of principle, then?

If "I will not support genocide" isn't among your principles then what is?

Biden being the lesser evil is a big ol' "Citation Needed" because (to state one of many reasons) he can get away with a lot more than Trump can, because of liberals who stop protesting and turn their brains off when a democrat is in office. (not to say every single liberal does, but Biden's term has been full of atrocities and has not attracted nearly the scale of protest that Trump's did, though now with palestine it's seeing some (just without the broad base of support liberal protests under Trump had).

[–] Chronicon@hexbear.net 8 points 1 year ago

I've met posters from here IRL. Seemed pretty real to me.

[–] Chronicon@hexbear.net 4 points 1 year ago

its not hard to set up a matrix bridge either but everyone's too invested in the stupid spying freeze-gamer app

[–] Chronicon@hexbear.net 7 points 1 year ago

I'm heavyset so maybe its slightly different but there is no way I'm showing at all and i've been on E the same amount of time as estradoll (high dose monotherapy, no AAs). Nobody has any clue that I haven't told explicitly. I spent 4 days at a cabin going swimming and stuff at a cabin with family that I'm not out to and got nary a sideways glance. Even once I am showing a little I'm confident nobody will assume HRT, just weight gain or smth. I can feel the difference, but visually its actually not there at all yet.

But yeah. Its for sure scary to do something like that without a plan. But you would have a lot of runway to figure one out if you did decide to. Hope you can get out on your own soon!

[–] Chronicon@hexbear.net 5 points 1 year ago

flower crown was great, my (surprisingly very straight and cis) friend made them for all of us since his yard is fully of daisies rn

[–] Chronicon@hexbear.net 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I knowww but there's no script for that

gotta figure out my own shit. Which I am but its slow going

[–] Chronicon@hexbear.net 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Sometimes, simply sitting at a desk is enough to cover part of it in a layer of skin flakes...

yep exactly what happens to me. I'm not hugely grossed out by it myself but it is... embarassing? My skin doesn't do it all over, mostly scalp and ears, but my siblings both have eczema so I assume mine's just milder

[–] Chronicon@hexbear.net 4 points 1 year ago

sleeping in a pretzel shape on a tiny loveseat

[–] Chronicon@hexbear.net 23 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Yeah exactly, their solution is to deride, or to ignore the existence of, all alternatives to blue maga, and then say "you have no alternative I don't see you starting a movement" type shit. I'd respect shilling for fucking DSA way more than this, and DSA kinda sucks.

[–] Chronicon@hexbear.net 5 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I did this but with white-bread family members. It was still decent, but its not like I'm out to any of them and I kinda threw my back out midway through lol

 
 

reinventing commie blocks from first principles with five-over-one characteristics

I'll still take it

 

Fake country

 

Somewhat reddit-brained lib friend of mine sent this article which triggered a whole discussion of geopolitics: https://www.tomshardware.com/tech-industry/tsmcs-euv-machines-are-equipped-with-a-remote-self-destruct-in-case-of-an-invasion

He said that would reduce the chance of an invasion and I was like (paraphrasing): "really? does it? the generations-long and unfinished business of the chinese civil war and all the history there is outweighed by the thought of losing one chip fab that they've already proven they don't really need after all the sanctions? They aren't going to invade unless their hand is forced, there's literally already US troops on taiwan-held islands, if they were on the brink of invading they would have done it already, but they aren't."

He basically argued that the majority of people there wanted to be independent therefore its simple self determination and the US should help them, etc.

I said the no capitalist state gives a flying fuck about self determination and asked if texas has the right to secede, or perhaps more relevantly, if texas settlers had the right to secede from mexico and join the US in the first place? because its not like the nationalists that took over the island were its native inhabitants, who are now mostly dead, flooding a low-population place with "settlers" doesn't mean you own it...

we went back and forth a bunch and he stopped arguing when I pointed out the inconsistency of supporting palestine but also taiwan, when they (while not the same, taiwan wasn't settler colonialism) have kind of a similar arc, what with israel's "majority", both having invaded and largely displacing the prior inhabitants.

I don't feel I had all the best arguments at my disposal, though overall I feel good about my responses.

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