See shit like this is why I sought out a non cis-male surgeon
BonkTheAnnoyed
joined 4 weeks ago
I always thought it should be possible to model the FFT in physical media. I think it would make an amazing piece of art
Just, she replied to a question about children's trans healthcare with, "I will continue to protect women in sports..." so maybe more LGB ally
Hey. It's really shitty that on top of fighting for your life, you gotta deal with dysphoria, too. It's not fair, and I'm so sorry.
I wore a lot of cute fem knit hats when I went through chemo, and that helped. I also leaned into clothes that emphasized my beautiful new-to-me fem figure, so if someone was going to misgender me it would have to be on purpose because they were an asshole and I didn't care what they thought.
Surprisingly, my loving spouse taking lots of pictures helped a lot, then, and later. I was surprised by how fem I looked even when all I could think about was my big lumpy dome and face elbow that other people called a nose (it's smaller than my dad's cis wife's, but try telling my brain that).
Hopefully this helps. You are beautiful.
Fuck cancer. Send cancer into the fucking sun. I believe in you.
Ps: there are LGBTQIA cancer support groups out ther, and they can really help. Here's one such org.
https://www.cancer-network.org/