Any thoughts maybe I should contemplate to try to get an answer for myself?
I would suggest not focusing on labels, but rather actions. Labels are tools, not boxes.
Do you want to dress differently? Try different a name or pronouns? Take HRT? How does thinking about these questions make you feel?
https://genderdysphoria.fyi/ may also be useful. I'd also suggest looking up the term "gender envy".
30s, when I came across a proper explanation of the split attraction model. I'm also some form of asexual.
Laser is one way, and it sounds like your hair is the right colour for it.
Blah-hadge, though I'll also tend to mention blo-hi when I'm teaching someone about our ally.
I'll be attending two pride events, hosting a social event for one of the spaces I'm in, and there's a progress pride flag in my front window.
Plus all of my usual activism.
I personally take the quantity over quality approach.
Which is to say many quality blåhaj.
Looks like she's having a whale of a time!