Banana

joined 2 years ago
[–] Banana@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 week ago

Why do you start every comment with an insult? Their question was reasonable and they didn't treat you the same. That really doesn't make you sound as smart as you think it does, especially when you're referencing yourself in your original comment, and the comment of your own that you referenced doesn't actually clarify anything, it's just another example of you insulting somebody and telling them that they're wrong.

Besides, age of consent laws differ in how they work based on what country you are in, and not everyone is from your country. You're expecting people to know shit they're not reasonably expected to know, and you're mad at them about it and being a child about it.

[–] Banana@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 week ago

Fucking great band.

[–] Banana@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 week ago

Understandable!

[–] Banana@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 week ago

Ah classic. Joke didn't land? Blame the audience.

[–] Banana@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

13 year old girls are also awkward as fuck lmao. Acne, stretch marks, figuring out wtf to do with a period.

All that and having to navigate being coveted by adult men while not understanding why.

[–] Banana@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 week ago

Young girls were intentionally manipulated into thinking this behaviour from older men was acceptable. It's called grooming because these were naive young women who literally did not have the brain development or experience to know that when a man says "you're so mature for your age", he's fucking lying.

Don't blame these young women for the grooming and trauma inflicted on them from a young age. Blame society for teaching men that they should be pursuing the youngest women possible.

[–] Banana@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 week ago (2 children)

While rape culture is huge among Republicans and dating young women is more popular among them, this issue is far more vast and definitely involves men across the political spectrum.

Until this obsession with youth=beauty and women under 130lbs being the beauty standard changes, this will still be a problem.

[–] Banana@sh.itjust.works 12 points 1 week ago

Fuck I am so, so sorry. That is so fucked up and way too fucking common.

[–] Banana@sh.itjust.works 12 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I'm sure they define that in the study if you read it

[–] Banana@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 week ago

Dang! Unfortunately I'm not but that's great info, I hope a lot of people are giving input!

Nationalized healthcare also didn't start federally ;)

[–] Banana@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 week ago (2 children)

100% agree, I've been writing letters about electoral reform because it is absolutely a thing that, if they pressure and push it through, could use having done it as a way to campaign to a population sick of empty promises. If you can get shit done without being the party in power (ahem, Tommy Douglas), what could you get done in power?

[–] Banana@sh.itjust.works 42 points 1 week ago

So, not allowing children to literally put everyone on a plane at risk is antisemitism now? Jfc.

 

I wrote a letter to a representative calling for change, calling for electoral reform. If you'd like to share, feel free to adjust it and mail it however you like! I do not want any credit for this. The letter is as follows:

Your Name

Your Address

City, Province, Postal Code

Email Address (optional)

Date

Representative's Name

Their Title

Office Address

City, Province, Postal Code

Subject: The voters are restless. We need change.

Dear Representative,

I've been thinking a lot about the nature of change in Canada; how it starts, who initiates it, and why it so often feels out of reach for ordinary citizens. It’s easy to feel like you're contributing when you post an opinion online, but real change demands more than digital echoes. That’s why I’m writing to you.

Recently, I was researching a Canadian legend by the name of Tommy Douglas, a man who was disappointed in socialists who cared more about their ideas than they did about taking action. He is lauded as the father of socialized medicine in Canada despite never rising beyond his position as Premier of Saskatchewan. I was singing his praises to a friend of mine when they pointed out that it was not Tommy Douglas alone that made this happen. He did this with the help of many, many regular people, just like me. This thought inspired me to write about an issue I feel is extremely relevant today.

In the last federal election, only 68.65% of eligible Canadians voted, which is relatively high compared to recent voting history, but is still just over half of eligible voters. When I ask friends why they don’t vote, most say it’s because their vote doesn’t matter. I would have loved to tell them that their vote does matter, that the system works; however, the working class is beginning to take notice, and we know that our vote does not matter. Our system is broken, and Canadians are stuck in an endless, limbo-like cycle with a government that never listens to us and only ever serves to increase wealth disparity, no matter which of the two largest parties we vote for.

This brings me to my next point: we only have two choices. We like to think of our country as a democracy, but until we change this system that inevitably results in a pissing contest between two near-identical parties of men in suits and ties, it is essentially no better than our southern neighbours.

We should not have to vote for a party that does not represent our views just to avoid fascism.

Former Prime Minister Trudeau was elected on the promise of electoral reform, then walked away from it. Many of us saw it coming. There was no accountability and no follow-through during the decade he spent as PM, and to think Canadian voters don’t notice this kind of betrayal is an insult to our intelligence.

I truly believe that this is an opportunity to show Canadians that you care about them beyond just their votes. You can show them that you respect their intelligence by promising actual change.

I am asking you to advocate for a ranked ballot system: a system that empowers voters to rank their preferences, eliminates the fear of "wasted votes," and encourages greater political diversity. It ensures that elected officials better reflect the views of most Canadians. Single-transferable-vote is a feasible goal if we work together.

A step further would be to make election day a national statutory holiday, easing access to the polls and reinforcing the importance of civic participation. While mandatory voting is worth exploring in the future, I believe turnout would improve organically if people felt their vote truly counted.

I understand that this is a big ask. I know that this letter sounds idealistic. But I also believe that electoral reform is foundational. This is an important change that can restore faith in our system and amplify the voices of Canadians who currently feel unheard. In a time of division and disillusionment where people are sick of being used as pawns in a political game, this could be a meaningful step towards rebuilding the trust between representatives and voters.

We need leaders who are bold enough to do what they know is right even if it threatens the status quo. We want policy made with people in mind rather than the pursuit of profit and power.

You give me the impression that you care. That’s why I’m writing to you. This is the first letter I’ve ever sent to a representative. I hope it’s not the last. And I hope, more than anything, that it doesn’t fall on deaf ears.

Canadians are losing hope. Please help give it back to us.

Sincerely, A concerned voter

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submitted 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) by Banana@sh.itjust.works to c/music@lemmy.world
 

NOTE: I FOUND IT!!!

The Moment by Atomic Tom

I don't know if this will be allowed in this community (mods pls delete if not), but I'm trying to find this album/single/EP cover from when I was in highschool.

I can't find anything online, chatgpt is downright useless, but I have a drawing of the album art because I liked it so much. Reverse image search yields nothing

I know it had to have come out between 2008 and 2012, had a sound similar to Franz Ferdinand, and the album cover was all white except for these two, clasped, stylized hands (the drawing is actually very close to what it actually looked like)

I seem to recall it having a little red but my memory could be false.

I figured somebody here may have seen it/remember too!

UPDATE: Hey yall I ended up finding it actually!!

What i ended up doing was editing the pic a bit to bring it closer to what I remembered:

Then I ended up finding it (forgot about the black background!!)

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submitted 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) by Banana@sh.itjust.works to c/lemmy_stitch@sh.itjust.works
 

I figure the best way to improve is more practice! Cheers, everyone! :)

 

Coming from the prairie city of Winnipeg, MB, these nerds draw on aspects of pop punk, melodic hardcore, Midwest emo, and indie rock.

If you ever find yourself in Winnipeg, come see these guys as they put on a hell of a live show!

 

Really wanted to learn embroidery so I picked up several kits and I have now officially completed my first one! Hope you like! :)

 

As the tite states, just getting into this now as a way to avoid my phone in the evenings, I'm really enjoying it so far!

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submitted 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) by Banana@sh.itjust.works to c/ObscureMusic@lemm.ee
 

The music video is also really good: https://youtu.be/KjqGtWrsyBc

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Leather boots (work and otherwise) (canada-west-boots-factory-outlet.myshopify.com)
 

Canada West is an internationally recognized brand out of Winnipeg that makes red-wing quality boots for a lower price. They already sell workboots in many stores around the country as well.

They have workboots, western boots, Chelsea boots, and some very nice dress boots as well!

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