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pls don't do this to yourself, you're better off not knowing some things. i'm dead serious.

I like having that kind of close heterosexual friendship, reminds me a lot of my gal pal and me

I knew I needed this surgery badly, but I didn’t realize til afterwards how severe my bottom dysphoria was.

I hear this from every friend of mine who's had bottom surgery. Still on the wait list for the clinic, but at this point it'll be less than a year until i can make a post like yours myself and i'm so looking forward to that!

Super glad to hear you're doing well, i wish you all the best for the recovery process and a ton of all these happy, happy moments of euphoria i keep seeing with other trans girls post OP.

Stop moving the goalposts and putting words in my mouth, stop weaponizing identities against marginalized comrades, stop being a fucking debate pervert arguing in bad faith and for fuck's sake stop your fucking incel apologia.

Also psint on very short nails looks kinda silly, kind of like painted toenails, but on a hand.

This is the lesbian way, tho.

You said everybody is shallow because everybody is into conventionally attractive people. That's literally what you said in your post. And it's utter bullshit. So i gave you a very short and by no means exhaustive list of examples why people would not be attracted to conventionally attractive people. I and other people could go on for hours who else would disagree with you. "Conventionally attractive" is an inherently cisnormative, heteronormative aesthetic, most people i hang out with do not resonate with it at all. That's not even getting into the rampant fatphobia and the white supremacist thinking that's also baked into the accepted concept of "conventionally attractive". And many of the acespec people i know just do not judge attraction primarily by physical features and do not get how you can already tell a person is hot just by looking at them. Your entire assumption of what "everybody" finds attractive just very quickly stops to work outside of your little straight people world. ofc i'm gonna call that out. That's not even beginning to unpack your implicit assumptions about valueing physical attractiveness higher than other traits when determining how attractive a person is.

The term conventionally attractive already means that it's an artificial societal standard that's forced on people against their will, against their natural desires, and frequently against their needs. That's what "convention" means in a societal context: an enforced and policed norm.

Not everyone's attracted to the same things, not everyone is primarily attracted to physical features, not everyone is even allosexual in the first place, please pull your head out of your ass and realize that not everybody see the world like an average cishet dude, you mansplaining dingus.

they're eggsperts on this matter

This can work on people with average levels of residual transphobia and it never hurts (and isn't particularly hard, either) to be better at biology than terfs, it's absolutely useful to have examples like this on hand. It sucks that we need to be prepared to hold a ted talk justifying our existence at any moment, but that's part of being trans in a cisfascist culture. It's a survival skill to be able to spit the straight facts about all this gender stuff. But keep in mind that the hardcore transphobes are perfectly willing to throw cis women with inter traits under the bus. Like, Janice Raymond literally thinks that women with XY chromosomes and androgen insensitivity who've been assigned female at birth and lived their entire lives as women and are 100% settled in their gender identity and repeatedly had normal pregnancies and have given birth to perfectly healthy babies are actually men entirely because of the Y chromosome. She's absolutely willing to die on that hill, and she's not alone in that.

If these people have ever been feminists in the first place, they've switched to being single-issue white whale chasing obsessive nazi sympathizers a long time ago, and they do not know any actual solidarity with other women, they're single mindedly about attacking trans people and if that means somebody who isn't trans gets caught in the crossfire, they absolutely dgaf. If one of their own hatemob members doesn't pass the gender AI face test to get into their special treehouse, it doesn't matter if she contacts customer service 30 times over this, they let her rot (yes that is an actual example from Giggle). The cruelty is the point, do not expect to get a gotcha on somebody with terminal transphobic brainrot.

I honestly recommend to not waste your time arguing with terfs, spend it on building communities, spend it on educating cis people willing to listen, spend it on having t4t sex in the bathroom stalls of lesbian dive bars or on voice training or on playing FONV, all of that is time better spent than growing callousses on your soul from online yelling contests with the world's most fascist Harry Potter fangirls.

The funniest part about this is, they preemptively added us to their list of blocked instances before we were federated with anything.

.world doesn't know about my propane gender

In that case you could really consider monotherapy. It usually takes longer to get good suppression of the LH/FSH/Testo axis without an AA, but it also means you avoid the most side-effect heavy part of HRT.