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I think the best solution is if you two break up and your GF joins a revolutionary catgirl polycule.

I am now observing that we are now 3 He/Hims telling disagreeing with someone on their argument about misogyny. Which is one of those "Bad looks".

I overwhelmingly agree with the guys in this thread. SWERF shit is also full of misogyny, whether it's the open misogyny of men criticizing sex workers or the internalized misogyny of radfems patronizing them.

It's just that it's really hard to speak out against it for me when i know that misogynists, particularly from instances with an open anti sex work consensus, might object to my take and start moralizing me like they did when i commented on the subject with an older account of mine. I seriously don't feel safe pitching in on the issue when a certain type of leftist, usually men who will use a token anti sex work woman they supposedly know as a shield, might be nearby. I deleted the reply i originally typed out because of this because i just don't have the nerve to start debating that kind of person rn.

Are you saying that people here are transitioning to becoming Dutch?

anti-catgirl sentiment is counterrevolutionary, enjoy your ears and headpats and piss on the laundry of people who give you shit for this.

edit: catgirl pro tip, make sure the laundry is fresh

She would honk lightly to ask for the headpats

It's wild how cissies think that as soon as you're outside of their ultra-narrow range of gender presentations they can wrap their head around, you immediately forfeit your right to not be harassed about your genitals. Like, every trans person i know has a story like that, often several. The ones where people actually demand to see our genitals are outstandingly bad, but this isn't the first time i come across that, either. Fucking perverts.

Is it agender tho if you change ur body via sex hormones

Yeah, it's best to follow Feinberg Thought and clearly seperate biology, gender as a social performance and gender identity as an internal, psychological structure. How you feel in your body and how and if you transition is independent from your gender identity. There can be an interaction between these, like things that give me dysphoria feel clearly incongruent from how i feel my body should be, they violate my sense of self - but i wasn't less of a woman when i could still grow a beard or before my boobs started growing, and getting bottom surgery will not make me more of a woman, it will just mean that i get rid of things that feel like foreign objects and cause me psychic damage. But that doesn't say anything about my gender identiy, people with a more binary understanding of gender do the same things as me when it comes to transitioning and people who would not use the term woman for themselves also do.

when you earn the title of "best wingwoman in the world" for hooking your friend up with what might legitimately be the hottest trans polycule in the state and can't write an appropriate brag post about the entire saga because it would both be too horny and would run the risk of doxxing some or all of us

You're definitely not alone with this. I hear takes like yours a lot from neurodivergent trans people and many of them specifically go for the agender label because it's what makes the most sense to them.

It's not how i view this stuff, i could write an entire effortpost about what being a lesbian means to me or how i'm both nonbinary and a trans woman, or how meaningless bodies are in regards to gender once you've had decidedly lesbian sex with a pre-transition trans woman who's more feminine than every cis woman i've ever been with, but i don't have the time for that today and i think is a perfectly reasonable and valid approach to this whole gender stuff, and i'm not gonna debate that.

There's drug stores with self checkout so you can buy cosmetics without having to go by the cashier. Painted toenails are a nice way to feel gender euphoria that can be hidden easily from others.

A ton of trans women i know, including me, had notably below average T and / or above average E before we started HRT. My endo was like "it's as if you body already started adapting a bit".

"I'm basically a lesbian in a dude's body."

• proceeds to do nothing with that insight for the next 20 years