I wanted to do that too but with traefik but I really didn't understand the tutorial , I think nginx proxy manager will be much easier. What tutorial did you use? Thank you!
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Yes the podcast is really good too.
Yes they are paid because he doesn't have any sponsors , no company paid him everything is his own work and experience. He also has a new method to sell his knowledge which is through a PDF so if you are interested let's say how to improve privacy and security on Apple devices you buy the PDF for $15 and then they will keep sending you updates as need it. Its much cheaper than the books and you get exactly what you need not like the book where get everything at once.
I know its not a YouTube channel but man I will prefer Michael Bazell from Intel Techniques over all these YouTube Channels. He does privacy and security for a living so he knows his thing and its very realistic about privacy and security.
If I understand correctly if you are using Tailscale your VMS are not being exposed on the internet. You are connecting directly to your home network and that's how you can access them remotely. As for your second question , just download and share a bunch of Linux ISO's ;)
Why is he getting down voted?
Great choice , I also use Backblaze as my backup place great service.
I agree with you in all your points and I have also look into why people just give up their privacy so easily , most of the time what I have noticed is that they (we all) love convenience. You want a plug and play camera? Buy ring , Need a plug and play router with a nice App? Buy google and Amazon Eero. Need to promote your business? Where is everyone at? Facebook , Twitter and Google. Most regular people give up their privacy for convenience, they don't have time dealing with thousands of option on a PF sense router , no time to create VLAns.
October 12th? Wow that is great news!
Cloudfare is very seriou about CSAM so I dont think that will happen.
Don't forget to drink water the night before , you will feel better the next day. Its dehydration that hit us the most so being hydrated while and after drinking helps a lot.