ApathyTree

A prior owner of my house was a mason. I know this because I get his union stuff (I’ve lived here for 15 years; at this point it’s not my problem).

He installed a huge fireplace and hearth.. on top of 2 layers of old hardwood flooring.. so when I ripped that out, I made the hearth unstable. Yay! It’s also an absolutely massive radiant structure, and everyone is shocked that it’s… designed for a small pellet stove.

It’s both well done, and not well done at all.

If there’s fake ones and people show up for them because they saw them on the map, are they fake?

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Well good thing I learned brail

Yeah it’s only until the end of July, it was just to help out a friend until either I was ready to move or her staffing picked up, and her staffing picked up, so I’m out.

It’s not my cup of tea, but it is what it is, and I figured getting out of the house once a week would be, like, good for me or something.

I missed this reply in my inbox, I’m sorry.

I appreciate your words.

This specific dude has made some really questionable comments about how other people have seen him as a “potential perp” but he’s for sure do nothing of the sort, and he’s always complaining his adult kids want nothing to do with him because his evil ex-wife tells lies, blah blah blah, so yeah..

I’ve actually been involved with men of that sort before, so it’s a massive turnoff (not sexually, just interpersonally) to be around.

Idk, if it happens again I’m probably just going to kick him out rather than deal with it. If my boss has an issue with it, too bad. I’m not going to be there long enough to give a shit.

It was over the course of half an hour, rather than a single quotation, but fair enough.

And your right that they don’t pay the same heed.. I wish there was a magic phrase that actually worked to stop some of that crap and also relieved the discomfort, but alas.

They gave all they had. And then some, Jesus.

Most animals have better births than humans but I, a human woman, would not want to be a kiwi bird (avian variety, IDK what words mean over there).

I mean don’t get me wrong, I’m a whopping 5’2 120lb chihuahua😅. I know how to throw my weight around if I have to, but I’m so ridiculously out of practice that I just rely on demeanor. Works well enough; people call me intimidating a lot. For reasons I guess.

That’s fair, I totally didn’t mean to imply that I’m only uncomfortable because of the qualifiers, just perhaps that they make it feel more difficult because I don’t have much of a framework for attraction interactions, maybe.

But you are right, it would be equally uncomfortable regardless because it’s ultimately unwanted interaction.

And you are also right that I need to distance myself from the life lessons of others.. I was diagnosed with adhd at 5 and it was used as a reason to move me every single year from age 5 to 17 (different schools every year until my junior year) so I didn’t grow with peers, I grew near people I barely interacted with, and idk what to do socially now..

So I appreciate your advice and words even if you think they come with a cynical air (realistic, if anything, I get it, and the sloppy bloody face brick wall person thing is why I don’t social)

I’ve been invited on a few cruises.

I was in the navy, and immediately launch into a tirade about how top heavy and unsafe those things are.

“Well it’s never been a problem for us”

Okie dokie, I took statistics, so hard pass all the same :)

New testicular pain isn’t something to ignore, if it keeps happening. Like for more than a few days, sort of thing. Even if it’s only every 3 days or whatever.

It could be partial torsion causing a pinching of the blood supply or something, which can lead to losing the nut. If you catch it early, it’s a relatively minor thing to fix.

(Disclaimer: I don’t have male anatomy, I’ve just read several books about ED and penis functionality/misfuntionality written by wiener doctors because the male body is interesting and foreign. They all agree on that one point; don’t ignore ball pain. At worst you learn it’s nothing to be concerned about, and that’s also valuable information.)

I saw a depressing comic like that.. civilization has collapsed, no humans left, and the invisible hand of the market keeps raising prices.

I tried to find it for you but there are a lot of invisible hand of the market comics and I’m not good enough to find it :(

Need to throw in some viral stupidity like licking toilet seats and tampering with food and stuff.