ApathyTree

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[–] ApathyTree@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

My favorite question to ask people is “what is something that you learned recently that you, personally, yourself, find interesting”, but I always find it disappointing when people, rather than divulge their special interest, hobby, or skill set, will flounder and ask what I’m interested in. I put all them leading “looking for your personality” words in and all and nope.

My dude that’s not what I asked. I want to know what makes you tick, what you find interesting, not what you think makes me tick, you don’t know me; everything makes me tick if it’s presented well.

One dude told me all about the trash bag making machine he helped design and actively maintained, and it was a great chat. Pulling teeth to get him to open up but once he did he was so proud of himself it was great!

ETA: So, tell me about a thing you learned recently that you find interesting. (Seriously, open invite, I’m always down to learn stuff)

Also my second favorite question, which I reserve for professionals I interact with when they are on the job, is “what was the path that got you to your current professional occupation?” Because that’s almost always an interesting story and I’m terrible with small talk.

[–] ApathyTree@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Oh good to hear, I just acquired his dark materials, but haven’t seen it yet.

There are so many poorly executed great ideas. I’d love to see them redone, whatever format (tho complex stuff does tend to be better serialized… limitedly - end the story when it’s done, not when people give up on it because it fell apart)

[–] ApathyTree@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Mmm it’s really sad but some of the nonstandard acquisition sites (even free ones) are better for content discovery than any service has ever been.

Because they don’t fucking recommend each other do they? No.

But the alternative market knows no boundaries. They don’t give a fuck who put what out. “Hey fyi since you like this, you might like this handful of similar things that we make nothing directly off telling you about , but indirectly benefit because you come back”

The Reddit megathread is one of the only things on that site I still reference. Not great, but better than the alternatives (until I get automation set up then it’s all over).

[–] ApathyTree@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

That would be great! I’d love to be wrong about this one.

I really dislike the “shove them in smaller boxes” idea this seems to have to it, similar to the tiny house “movement” (which actively makes me uncomfortable for a variety of reasons), but in areas that don’t have basements or whatever, where it’s a house on a slab no matter how big, where people just have this “must have freestanding structure to fully own it” mentality (which in a lot of cases is legit, but if we planned for it could easily be handled). This is an option.

Just my own curiosity, and you seem fun to talk to; where you are from, are your foundations accessible spaces, or are you in a slab foundation swampy area? I ask because I’m from a “has basements” area, where the foundation of the house actually adds space to it. I assume most row houses have basement spaces, because you tend to find them in densely populated areas that existed before modern conveniences like refrigeration and roads. So maybe you’d need a basement to store preserved goods. I doubt there’s space on average to have that in the main space right? (Legit asking, idk, maybe space isn’t right, but root cellars have different conditions, cooler.)

But I lived down in Texas for a while and a lot of their land you can’t build basements on because it’s really flood prone, so it’s literally just floating concrete slabs on land with houses atop. Honestly if you are going to put houses on that, you might as well do it this way and maximize the space between them with native shade plants to use up the moisture.

[–] ApathyTree@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 2 years ago

That makes sense, I’ve never actually made bagels myself but it’s on my to-do list because I -fucking love- bagels, like if someone could just download the full human history of bagels into my brain, including recipes and tutorials, so I could make them without having to fail repeatedly to get it right (failing with food is difficult for me, and breads are.. generally not in my attention span’s wheelhouse 😅), I’d be the literal happiest person alive.

Thanks! I’m so used to the cheap mass produced bagels being basically closed, and the gourmet ones being very open (excepting anything that got toppings), so that totally makes sense, I just never thought about it.

[–] ApathyTree@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 2 years ago (3 children)

I’d definitely prefer that, personally, but I think that would be a tough sell in most of the US at this particular point in society. Especially when most construction of new homes isn’t really urban so people don’t feel the space confinement the way they would in a more urban setting (they just look past the row homes and go “well that field could be housing so I don’t want this”), and with the sprawling layout of suburbs, they would feel super out of place to the point where I bet NIMBY mentality would prevent it.

Perhaps if that was a more normal option here, but it’s pretty uncommon for now.

[–] ApathyTree@lemmy.dbzer0.com 14 points 2 years ago

Squatting long enough to trigger adverse possession, probably.

[–] ApathyTree@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (2 children)

Pizza in the morning, pizza in the evening, pizza at supper time. When pizza’s on a bagel You can eat pizza anytime!

Why does the hole need to be massive for cream cheese? Have I been bageling wrong this whole time?

[–] ApathyTree@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 2 years ago

I’ve used it a couple times, but no. I usually forget it exists unless we have a specific reason to be using it. Like being in a crowd (I’m quite short and lose people very easily, and it’s quicker than texting).

It might be ok to use in my car but since I have the phone paired to the car, it doesn’t register anything from the watch. So I’d have to turn that off first and meh.

[–] ApathyTree@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 2 years ago (9 children)

They got rid of side yards but have halfway decent back yards, according to the info in it, to smoosh them all together.

But also I’m down for that too. I hate mowing my lawn. I don’t use the lot for much, so what do I care if it’s tiny?

[–] ApathyTree@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (15 children)

Having read this the other day, it seems the lots for them are smaller so it’s still better than typical suburban sprawl, but yeah not by very much. It’s like duplexes, just without the shared walls.

At the same time, I totally understand the logic of the buyers. Condos and apartments really aren’t the same as having your own property that nobody really has say over but you. You can’t make big changes to a condo without approval of the building owner or whatever even though you “own it”, you share walls, and have no yard.

It’s just one more piece to the puzzle, it’s not meant to be -the-solution, just one of many.

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