AcidSmiley

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[โ€“] AcidSmiley@hexbear.net 2 points 2 years ago

Trick question, werewolves and vampires usually appear in close proximity to each other and that also applies to them as part of the trans community.

[โ€“] AcidSmiley@hexbear.net 38 points 2 years ago (1 children)

When every last gamer is finally transed. They don't even realize they're already deep in the pipeline as soon as they download FNV, EU IV or a soulslike game, some just take more time to crack than others.

[โ€“] AcidSmiley@hexbear.net 6 points 2 years ago

Yeah, that idea is so far from the truth. To me, realizing i'm actually NB was like an evolutionary step, i had to actually spend time hanging out with (and making out with) other nonbinary transfems, in completely genderfucked locations where i realized "wait i'm in what used to be the men's room and it doesn't make me dysphoric because we're beyond this here and everybody around me is gay as hell", let that feeling that gender is a scam really sink in. I had to ditch all these notions about overvaluing cis passing and wanting to fulfill some binary cishet ideal of womanhood, embrace my butch side, be gay and do crime, learn that while i hate being seen as a man, i actually find it hillarious when my gender genuinely confuses people. It was a learning process, getting rid of the binary was another part of developing revolutionary consciousness, it was a process of resistance.

It doesn't have to work this way, some people know right out of the gates they're NB and like i said, some binary trans folks need time to accept themselves in that binary role, too, and it's ok when "maybe i'm NB or genderfluid" is a temporary construct that helps them through that phase where they can't fully believe they're a woman yet. All of that is valid. It's normal that it takes time to figure yourself out when you're one of the people where the whole "the baby has a peepee, it's a boy" heuristic doesn't work, but is instead the first act of violence you experience.

[โ€“] AcidSmiley@hexbear.net 29 points 2 years ago (6 children)

lol Lady Liberty hiding in a shopping cart is the perfect depiction of AmeriKKKan treat brain.

[โ€“] AcidSmiley@hexbear.net 22 points 2 years ago (7 children)

I've only been on progesterone for two weeks and i could swear my boobs are already growing.

[โ€“] AcidSmiley@hexbear.net 17 points 2 years ago

That's such a sweet story, thanks for sharing that!

[โ€“] AcidSmiley@hexbear.net 14 points 2 years ago

also how does she grow her hair out that much in just a year? i know tons of girls and a sizeable number of guys and enbies who'd kill for that knowledge.

[โ€“] AcidSmiley@hexbear.net 14 points 2 years ago

It's still a nice meme, but yeah, that needed to be said.

[โ€“] AcidSmiley@hexbear.net 6 points 2 years ago (1 children)

i have no idea what's going on there, but i like it has the same energy as this (NSFW)

[โ€“] AcidSmiley@hexbear.net 3 points 2 years ago

That's not funny, he sprayed his pee next to literal millions of toilets and never washed his hands afterwards, he was a walking war urinal.

[โ€“] AcidSmiley@hexbear.net 30 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (15 children)

and before anybody else says it, yes, it's kinda problematic to show gender neutral pronouns as a transitional stage to a binary trans identity. Yes, there are trans women who initially have an easier time using gender neutral pronouns because it takes the pressure off them to fully perform femininity, and that's ok and valid. But it's not the only or even a typical development. There's a lot of people who do not go through such changes and where pronouns go from he / him to "oh fuck somebody asked about my pronouns what do it tell them" directly to she / her or they / them or whatever fits them. There's people like me who transitionally use they / them, then go to she / her, then realize that the whole nonbinary thing wasn't a phase once we've settled in a bit, but stick with "binary"pronouns because womanhood is the closest commonly understood approximation to who we are and it makes little sense to explain the nuances to people who've never questioned their gender. And there's people who at first find it easier to accept being binary trans and need to become really secure in their femininity to accept they are actually nonbinary.

[โ€“] AcidSmiley@hexbear.net 27 points 2 years ago (16 children)

Lacks the stage in 2025 where i'm she / her / meow / meows with a technical

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