I went shopping with my mom, and someone asked "You ladies need help with anything?" 🥰️
-Emma-
joined 2 years ago
Welcome welcome! 🥳️
I've been on HRT for over a year, and I haven't experimented with makeup yet, except for my brows. Well I recently got some stuff and am going to try it out in a little while.
I've been boy-moding until now, but my breast growth is enough to make boy-moding difficult now. So I need to learn my makeup style to complete my fem look.
Hopefully all goes well for both of us! 🥰️
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I'm pretty sure she's talking about Information Security (IPSEC), Operation Security (OPSEC), and generally being privacy-conscious. So like, being careful about how much personal information you share, so as to protect against doxxing and other bad stuff.
Yay!! Thank you so much for this wonderful place!
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If reports are federating across, then a good deal of them could be from me. Is it necessary to report each one, so they can all be dealt with, or is that just annoying? I thought that they stack to the same user and that mods can easily mass-delete. Is that not how it works?
Your comment probably should have been a private message instead.
I don't like Lemmy, since it requires javascript, and I definitely don't want an account on a troll farm instance. I messaged my admin.
Okay, so here is a running list of the recent transphobic trolls from lemmy.today
@DiscordMod1990yyyyx@lemmy.today@TiredOfWokeMods@lemmy.today@Hshsjsjsjjsnsnshs555@lemmy.today@VeganTomato@lemmy.today@Vegan2mato@lemmy.today
There is definitely a problem of transphobic trolls coming from that instance.
I maybe got a little carried away in this comment.
What really pissed you off in a therapy session?
TL,DR: lack of privacy, security, communication, and respect
I'm not going to discuss the conservative "therapist" I had. I did eventually get an LGBTQ-friendly therapist.
I discovered that my therapist was typing up her notes on a Windows computer with a keylogger enabled by default, sending the data to Microsoft. The notes were also stored unencrypted on a server accessible by the entire IT department of the clinic.
She didn't understand the issue. This clearly voids patient-doctor confidentiality, and it destroyed my trust in the clinic.
I've experienced another issue while searching for a new therapist.
I found a therapist on the psychology today site that listed a full address. I showed up to make an appointment for a first session just to learn that she doesn't accept new clients without a phone call or email.
The only reason I had considered her was that she listed a full address, implying that phone and email weren't needed.
So I would recommend clearly communicating things like this, be privacy-conscious, and respect patient-doctor confidentiality. Without these fundamentals, there is no foundation of trust and respect.
What is the most important thing for me to try to understand?
I think the most important thing to understand for trans patients is that everyone's transition is unique, including the personal story.
So for instance, some trans girls/women say they were always a girl/woman, while others say they became a girl/woman.
It's important to listen and understand the individual and not get ahead of yourself.
I hope this is helpful, or at least interesting.
I browsed the communities on their instance using mlmym so I could see the full list. Then I tried to access the lemmytoday community from my Mbin account, and I got a 404 error.
So that's what I meant when I said I can't report things to the admins on lemmy.today, since I can't post on their dedicated community.
I've noticed recently that my instance can't fetch new communities anymore. For instance, I fetched all of the good LGBTQ+ accounts months ago without an account, and they all eventually federated across. But I can't fetch asktransgender@lemmy.blahaj.zone or any other communities that aren't already federated. I was thankfully able to fetch trans@lemmy.blahaj.zone before this issue.
On another note, if moderator actions don't federate across instances, does that mean when I see this:
[Thread, post or comment was deleted by the moderator]
the comment was deleted by a moderator on my Mbin instance, rather than a moderator on Blahaj? In that case, I would think my reports are working.
I have to agree with you on this. Smooth is ❤️🔥️
After getting all smooth, thigh-highs and a skirt with a cute top is also really nice. And tucking completes it for me. 🥰️