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This topic came up at work and my coworkers of all genders had no answer. Never met or heard of one.

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[–] EmmaGoldman@hexbear.net 39 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Yes, but they don't show the same style of unhinged, stalkery foot fiendishness that men do, and so largely go unnoticed along with both of the men who are capable of being normal about their foot fetish.

[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 13 points 1 year ago

both of the men

data-laughing

[–] heyoheyoheyyyy@hexbear.net 34 points 1 year ago (2 children)

you don’t hear about us bc we don’t run around making it our personality we just quietly google aoc wikifeets

[–] ProfessorAdonisCnut@hexbear.net 31 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] Egon@hexbear.net 12 points 1 year ago

The good timeline we lost out on

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[–] Dolores@hexbear.net 28 points 1 year ago (5 children)

yes of course there are, the interesting corollary is what about patriarchy makes that seem invisible and if that applies to other fetishes. is there a fetish stereotyped as femme?

[–] glans@hexbear.net 29 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

vampires

magic

suits / uniforms

literature

chest

tall

little spoon

protection

fixable

Forearms are the big one I can think of.

[–] Aquilae@hexbear.net 20 points 1 year ago

Hands, maybe

[–] RyanGosling@hexbear.net 17 points 1 year ago (4 children)

is there a fetish stereotyped as femme?

  • MFM threesomes
  • all women are secretly bi
  • orgies
  • Hondas

That’s all I can think of. Though unlike guys freely admitting all their weird fetishes that’s stereotyped as masculine, I rarely see or hear women talk about anything more extremely than bondage lol.

[–] DrCrustacean@hexbear.net 21 points 1 year ago (2 children)
  • Hondas

???

Like the car manufacturer? Am I missing something here?

[–] EmmaGoldman@hexbear.net 24 points 1 year ago

Women cannot resist when the VTEC kicks in bro

[–] LeZero@hexbear.net 17 points 1 year ago

How could you resist those calves?

[–] Cromalin@hexbear.net 13 points 1 year ago

talk to more women. most of my friends are into some real wild shit and they aren't shy about it

[–] someone@hexbear.net 10 points 1 year ago (5 children)

I rarely see or hear women talk about anything more extremely than bondage lol.

I personally know three women who have major CNC kinks.

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 26 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Yes, and they're cool. Men seem more common because there's some subset of em that are just not chill about it at all and they get in your face about it and ask for feet pics in public.

[–] SorosFootSoldier@hexbear.net 21 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 11 points 1 year ago

So that's what the "Foot" part of the username means... brow

[–] RyanGosling@hexbear.net 13 points 1 year ago

Imagine wearing sandals in this economy

not chill about it at all and they get in your face about it and ask for feet pics in public.

joker-gaming

[–] theposterformerlyknownasgood@hexbear.net 11 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Quentin Tarantino is a sex pest

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[–] kristina@hexbear.net 26 points 1 year ago

yes and they are absolute freaks or they are lesbian. the absolute freaks are obsessed with hairy man feet

I've met a lot more women that are into hands than I have feet but I'm sure they're out there.

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 19 points 1 year ago (15 children)

OKAY, I have never understood why people freak out about a feet kink. It's unusual sure, but far from the weirdest thing people are into. Mfs treat liking feet as if it's a snuff fetish.

[–] Tankiedesantski@hexbear.net 13 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I think that for some people they are uncomfortable with the idea that someone may be sexualizing a part of their body that is generally considered non-sexual.

During my university years there was a guy who was taking pictures of female students' feet without their knowledge in the library. Since feet aren't considered sexual, all the university could do was trespass him from the library. Had he been found with an SD card full of students' breasts, asses, or crotches, he probably would have been expelled or worse.

Like imagine if you found out that there was a group of people online who are aroused by the color blue so they share photos of women in blue dresses or driving blue cars or holding blue objects. You might be inclined to think twice about putting on your favorite blue sweater or whatever.

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 10 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

I feel silly now, I'm never thinking about guys being such utter freaks all the time. Makes perfect sense to be weirded out given this behaviour. It simply did not occur to me because this type of behaviour does not factor into my assessment of kink. Why would it? Who would do this? Do not do this.

Also I'm pretty sure there are groups of people online who do just that kind of stuff. Thinking back to a leddit thread about "unusual fetishes" and some guy said "women with clothes on", to which another replied " going outside must be a blast for you".

[–] Tankiedesantski@hexbear.net 17 points 1 year ago (3 children)

some guy said "women with clothes on", to which another replied " going outside must be a blast for you".

Good god, the coomers are evolving past their weaknesses. They can't be defeated by going outside anymore!

To be entirely fair to the foot fetishists, their reputation is being smeared by a small group of them that the whole can't really police. Think of a counter factual of the library annecdote: if some guy was taking secret pics of students' breasts, it would be seen as him being gross as opposed to people who like breasts being gross.

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[–] Cromalin@hexbear.net 19 points 1 year ago

oh absolutely, i know many

[–] Egon@hexbear.net 19 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Take your pick:

  1. Nah the female version is forearm fetishism
  2. Nah the female version is hand fetishism
  3. Nah women do not have a sexuality
  4. Yes some women are attracted to feet, we just don't hear about it, just like we don't hear about how women or horny and the like
  5. Personally I blame the patriarcy
  6. Noone has ever actually been attracted to feet. It's all a bit we agreed to do to fool you. Sorry to tell you like this.
  7. Feet aren't real.
  8. Women aren't real.
  9. Fetishes aren't real.
  10. JFKs head just did that and Jackie has a fat ass and some cute ankles.
[–] RyanGosling@hexbear.net 18 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

I’ve always wondered why the majority of female serial killers aren’t motivated by psychosexual reasons. Most of them killed for material gain; or they gravitated towards abusive people and kept killing them; or they did it for fun; or they did it for β€œmercy” (e.g. the killer nurses).

Like everyone knows who Dahmer and Gacy are, but you’d be hard pressed to find someone who can name the female equivalent so easily.

If you factor in patriarchy, then it contributed to the male ones becoming more entitled and angry over perceived rights being violated. But women also have their sexuality repressed and shamed, and abuses aren’t taken seriously and even encouraged as β€œtradition” in many places - like you can probably find women who grow up with the same or worse conditions as male psychosexual killers, yet those wires are never crossed at the same rate as the male killers.

[–] GalaxyBrain@hexbear.net 30 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Fuck does this have to do with having a foot fetish?

[–] EmmaGoldman@hexbear.net 21 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Obviously it means that foot fetishists are serial killers. Or maybe that serial killers are foot fetishists? Unclear.

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[–] Cherufe@hexbear.net 18 points 1 year ago

Vintage Chapo posting

[–] TreadOnMe@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago

I've known women who were into the underside of men's arms (not armpits). Very funny stuff imo.

[–] TheFinalCapitalist@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago (2 children)

From personal experience I can say yes lol. I had a lady SA my feet in the middle of a Xmas work party. I'll spare the details but there was plenty of witness' and she gained the nickname toes at work. She ended up quiting not too long afterwords

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[–] Des@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago

i knew one personally in the kink scene. she was a really cool woman and did a lot of social meetups unfortunately never got to meet her in person.

not my thing but they do exist

[–] laziestflagellant@hexbear.net 14 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I've met a number of women who enjoy feet in sexual contexts (both feet themselves and boot kink) but I've never met a woman exclusively or primarily into feet in the way that I'd call a foot fetishist tbh

[–] AlicePraxis@hexbear.net 23 points 1 year ago (1 children)

you don't have to be exclusively or primarily into something to have a fetish though

[–] laziestflagellant@hexbear.net 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

True but I think 'foot fetishist' implies certain connotations of being very foot focused

[–] AlicePraxis@hexbear.net 14 points 1 year ago

I guess I'd consider a fetishist to be anyone who happens to have a particular fetish, and you can be a fetishist of multiple things simultaneously

if someone likes sucking toes I'd definitely consider them a foot fetishist even if they have bigger kinks as well

[–] THIRD_WORLDIST@hexbear.net 13 points 1 year ago
[–] blashork@hexbear.net 13 points 1 year ago

questions posed by those who have no idea how many ballerinas and ballet practitioners have a foot fetish and are women

[–] GalaxyBrain@hexbear.net 13 points 1 year ago (4 children)
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Yes, but we don't go around harassing people about it outside of sexual spaces as far as I can tell.

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