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[–] Wanderer@lemm.ee 5 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Started eating a shit tonne of rice.

Losing weight really isn't that hard. It's calories in verses calories out. If that doesn't work, congratulations you are breaking the laws of thermodynamics and physics is changed forever.

I just took out some higher calorie food and ate a lot more chicken and rice and the weight dropped off kinda scary fast seeing as I was eating 4 meals a day. Ended up adding extra calories with eggs and was more comfortable with sauces.

Another time I took up surfing. Fucking hell surfing is hard, running 10 miles is easier. Increased my food load and ate a crap load more protein and just changed shape in a few months, lost the fat around my tummy and my shoulders grew huge.

[–] pearable@lemmy.ml 5 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I moved to a city in the US where I can get around without a car. 95% of my trips I take via bike or public transit. I haven't actually lost much weight but I have gotten much leaner

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[–] SteelCorrelation@lemmy.one 5 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Still working on it. Goddamn antipsychotics make it really difficult, but I’m gonna do it.

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[–] crispy_kilt@feddit.de 5 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I ate less.

Shocking, I know.

[–] CAVOK@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago

I won't give a specific solution.

What works for you ultimately depends on you; be it intermittent fasting, OMAD, cutting sugar and/or salt, simply eating less, working out, a combination of the previously mentioned, etc. but what I feel allowed me to actually lose weight (~50 pounds so far) was accepting that -- whatever you end up doing -- it's not temporary. It's a lifestyle change. You're just going to regain that weight if you return to the habits that brought you there in the first place.

Mentally, I also approached it as "one step at a time". Weight fluctuates for all sorts of reasons be it water intake, you just ate, etc. I didn't get discouraged as I saw the number go up and down a few pounds here and there, but continued to view every few pounds as a milestone worth celebrating (not with a cheat day, mind you). The general trend kept going down, I was getting and remaining healthy, and that's all I really cared about.

[–] ouRKaoS@lemmy.today 5 points 2 years ago

Long COVID.

Lost my appetite, smell, & taste. Appetite came back in about a month, smell & taste were off for 6-8 months. Lost over 50lbs from just not wanting to eat.

[–] GregorGizeh@lemmy.zip 5 points 2 years ago

Eating less sugar, fat and carbs. More protein. Exercising frequently, if you don’t like the gym find something else. Swimming for example is great fun and very gentle on an overweight body.

[–] small44@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I replaced sugar with date sirop
I'm eating less transformed food and fast food
Lot of sport between 5 and 30 km of running + walk a day
No change in portions

[–] Daeraxa@lemmy.ml 5 points 2 years ago

Not a method I'd ever recommend to anybody but depression did it. Just stopped eating, like, almost entirely, had no appetite whatsoever, would force myself to eat at least something around dinner time, around 50g of carbs (when dry) like pasta, rice or noodles. Drank tea during the day for some caffeine. Combined with some exercise - started walking then running about 5k every few days.

Things got a bit more normal after a while and just kind of went with watching calories. Mostly just kept an eye on carbs - no more than 100g per day, used less fat or oil in cooking, picked slightly (but not excessively) leaner cuts of meat, more veggie dishes, skimmed milk, no sugary drinks. Never was one for eating breakfast, my day would normally be some kind of lunch time thing like a couple of crumpets with some jam, an afternoon snack - usually rice cakes, japanese-style crackers, pickled stuff (gherkins, onions, sauerkraut) then dinner as I mentioned above. There was a few brands of ice cream that did low calorie versions I would buy for dessert, or I would have fat-free yoghurt and a couple of squares of chocolate.

I found this pretty easy to do during covid (started this all maybe mid 2020). It was easy to hide the fact you were eating strangely if people aren't aware. The bit that I found (and still find) hardest is the intention to start or cut portion sizes. I never intended to do it but I found that when I stopped eating because I had no appetite, it was like a kind of reset that allowed me to build up to a more appropriate diet. I can't say I think this is a good idea for a whole host of reasons but that is what happened to me.

[–] berryjam@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago

Cico, exercise, good sleep, and a solid reason to lose

[–] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Naltrexone and then became vegan. It's AMAZING.

Edit; should clarify I am not taking naltrexone for weight loss, it's for an anxiety disorder, and it's a side effect. It made me loathe the taste of animal products and I have almost no appetite, but bitch is SKINNAY.

[–] 31415926535@lemm.ee 5 points 2 years ago (5 children)

Can't afford to eat much, cuz SSI, rent increase. Kept having conversations in head, like "I can buy laundry detergent OR have food to last the month." I've lost 20 lbs past few months , after discovering how tasty white rice can be, with just a tiny bit of sesame oil, salt and pepper.

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[–] DrMango@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago

Stopped drinking my calories (alcohol, juice, soda, etc.) and fell in love with running.

Moved to a walkable city in a country with better food quality, and sold my car. It's a cheat code.

Also slowly regaining it, and need to cut down on snacking and drinking.

[–] RHOPKINS13@kbin.social 4 points 2 years ago

Dance Dance Revolution. More specifically, an open source clone of it called StepMania. Very fun way to lose weight. You'll want to invest in some high quality metal dance pads if you really enjoy it though.

[–] xilliah@beehaw.org 4 points 2 years ago

I'll focus on decision making with a threefold approach. If that sounds fancy, well that's because it is.

Firstly, large change comes from seemingly insignificant decisions. Actually, they just seem so small because they are made in the current moment. But decisions made in the moment are all anybody has and ever had, and so they are actually most meaningful.

Secondly, grow your capacity for decision making. Don't start with the oak, but with the seed. Start small, slow, and with low expectations. Keep in mind that these take place in the moment.

Examples:

  • Pay attention to the moments in your day when you could have made a decision. Don't interfere, just observe.
  • While going for a walk, decide to change your path. Take an unplanned turn. Try a U turn.
  • See how long you can just sit somewhere. More challenging than it sounds.
  • Swim one extra lane.
  • Stop watching after one episode.
  • And so on.

Thirdly, the same as point two, but focused on cultivating healthy eating patterns.

Examples:

  • Observe your eating behavior without interfering and judgment. You're simply learning about how things are and have been.
  • Throw away a handful of chips. It's alright to toss food given your circumstances.
  • Switch out a chocolate bar with stracciatella quark. Chocolatey protein!
  • Read up on nutrition while waiting for the train. What is glycogen? How does one properly store prepared food?
  • Cook something nutritious and tasty by adding spices, cheese, cream, butter, salt, sugar. Can't be worse than a factory meal, right?
  • Standing in the store in front of what you're craving, and pay attention to what you're feeling. Buy it.
  • Standing in the store in front of what you're craving, and pay attention to what you're feeling. Say no.
  • And so on and so forth.

Lastly, I'd like to say that weight loss is a personal journey, filled with unique challenges and discoveries. Beyond these practical steps, it's crucial to remain open to deeper insights about yourself. Whether it's addressing emotional eating, seeking social support, or trying out sport, the essence lies in making a series of informed decisions in the present moment. Each choice, no matter how small, propels you forward, shaping the future you envision for yourself.

[–] Tecovirimat@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Overweight and obesity are extremely complex disorders, that combines genetic predisposition, changes in hormonal levels and horrible obesogenic environment that we have nowadays. There is no simple answer on how to lose weight as it depends on multiple factors too - your home and work environment, availability of stores with fresh products, your medical history, your goals in general. What is working well for one person, may not be ideal for others or even sometimes dangerous (depends on other comorbidities).

Most important part is not just to lose weight, but do it safely and maintain the weight loss. For that you need a whole lifestyle change, that is why it is so hard for many people. The major rule is: permanent dietary changes needed for a weight loss and regular exercises needed for maintaining the result.

My advise (if you are in the US) - find an obesity clinic with obesity board-certified physician, discuss all your concerns and develop a plan what will work specifically for you. It is pretty well covered by insurances and you will always have a specialist who can answer your questions and help to overcome any barriers in the future.

And remember we all are just internet strangers, take all our advices with healthy skepticism.

[–] mdhughes@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 years ago

I follow a simple diet called "half". I eat a half portion of whatever I'd like. I don't eat any better or worse, just less of it. Did you know a frozen burrito has 300+ calories? Eat one, not two. Portion controls are essential, don't get a tub of ice cream, get a box of little ice creams, and then eat one instead of gobbling two or more. Giant bowl of pasta? Half now, half goes in the fridge for tomorrow, instead of packing my gut full.

I probably cheat enough that I'm getting 2/3 or 3/4 of my full calorie intake, but it's good enough that I've lost 30 lbs in a couple years, I'm not putting it back on, and it's required no real hardship.

[–] Pencilnoob@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago

From 2013 to 2017 I lost 60 pounds and I've kept it off since.

I tried everything to lose that fat.

I've tried at different times: keto, calorie counting, intermittent fasting, low fat, low carb, Soylent, cutting alcohol, high fiber, if it fits your macros, power lifting, CrossFit, running, vegan, vegetarian, carnivore, and Renaissance periodization.

What's actually worked consistently for losing and keeping it off? Simple. Intermittent fasting 20/4 with low carb during the week, free cheat weekends, and no alcohol ever. With that protocol I can control my weight to the pound, consistently, and I've held it there for over 5 years.

It's such a great feeling to be totally in control of it.

[–] xkforce@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago

2 hours of moderate exercise a day, ate less and replaced things like potato chips etc. with healthier things eg. nuts

[–] Kit@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 years ago

Lost 100 lbs by having a slimfast shake for breakfast and a Greek yogurt or banana for lunch. Anything I want for dinner.

[–] Pantherina@feddit.de 4 points 2 years ago

Went vegan.

Lost 10kg, was pretty worried, got 8 back

[–] jim@lemmus.org 4 points 2 years ago
  • Dr. Ian Smith Fat Smash Diet (Except I kept the coffee in the first part)
  • It don't happen overnight (Weigh in about once a week or so...)
  • Stop all Fast Food (Seriously, when cheat days come along make your own with better ingredients)
  • Pack lunches (& you will also save a ton of $$$)
  • Large meal earlier in the day
  • Exercise (I walk / hike allot now)
  • Make good choices (It really comes down to this, there is tons of crap in the grocery store - don't take it home)

You can and will do it, but it will take time.

[–] Carighan@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago

I went from 110 to 75kg a few years ago by no longer snacking in the evening.

I eat something at 5-6, and then that's the last thing for the day.

That alone did it already.

[–] cmeio@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago

By figuring out how I would eat to keep a healthy weight. Then I just started eating like this. Its slow, but you don't run into the problem of being "done" with losing weight and picking up weight again. You just have a better eating habit and can stick with it basically forever - and as a bonus you can even have things like Pizza while losing weight.

[–] CurlyWurlies4All@slrpnk.net 4 points 2 years ago

I appreciate this doesn't work for everyone and might not be a long term solution, but I dropped 20kg by fasting on a 20:4 schedule.

[–] NewAgeOldPerson@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago

Cooking at home. 100%. For 3 months to start. Then give one day a week out for another 3 months. And meal plan and prep on Sundays.

[–] Shimitar@feddit.it 4 points 2 years ago

Sport, I run, cycle or swim every day of the week. 1 hour mon-fri and 3-5 hours sat/sun.

And I went to a sport nutritionist who gave me a diet which makes me eat actually MORE (and much more balanced) than before.

Lost 15kgs in 6 months while gaining lots of muscle tissue that is heavier than fat.

Exercise and diet. That allowed me to lose 15 kg.

For exercise: I bought Ring Fit Adventure for the Nintendo Switch at the start of 2020. That's the only thing that has motivated me to exercise. Now I even do some additional weight lifting and cardio exercises. This has helped me the most to lose weight.

For diet: I have gastrointestinal issues. Since 2022 I started a diet to alleviate those problems. This helped only a little for losing weight.

[–] 52fighters@sopuli.xyz 4 points 2 years ago

I read labels and...

  • Eat only trace amounts of saturated fat.
  • No sugary drinks.
  • Eat a lot of fiber.
  • No breakfast, it isn't necessary.
  • Walk or bike 1 hour every morning.
  • Lift & run every work day during my lunch hour.

I've never been more fit.

[–] puppy@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago

Lost around 10 kg in lockdown era. Ate less and did some exercises 3 days a week (nothing fancy. Just played a YouTube video and followed along). Most importantly I got used to feeling a bit hungry sometimes.

[–] SendMePhotos@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago

60lbs. Calorie deficit. Aimed for 1500 calories, bled over with a reasonable margin to 1800 calories. Per day.

[–] AwpZoomer@lemmy.ca 4 points 2 years ago

Figure out how many calories you need to maintain your weight and eat less then that.

A calorie calculator can estimate how many calories you burn a day and can estimate plans based on how much weight you want to lose per week.

Exercise so that you don't lose muscle mass and your body burns the stored calories.

And finally, test things and find what works for you. Staying consistent is key.

For myself, I like a Zig Zag plan for losing weight cause I can still enjoy some junk food on the weekend. I track my calories using MyNetDiary because it syncs with other apps I use.

I've lost 15lbs in 4 weeks but I know it's going to take about 5 more months to meet my goal weight.

Good luck on your journey!

[–] ivanafterall@kbin.social 4 points 2 years ago
[–] Melatonin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 2 years ago

"Lose It" app, which is a food log. Awareness does the trick. I set it to about 2/3 of my average daily calorie burn, and stick to it, with a day off every two weeks or so.

Works for me.

[–] Boiglenoight@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (4 children)

Edit: just in case someone sees this, making an update in bold.

Stopped eating breakfast. No eating after 8 pm. Ate 4 ounces of meat, a cup of veggies and a 1/4 cup of some kind of nuts for lunch at noon and dinner at 7 pm every day except Saturdays. For energy/appetite control, I keep a 1/4 of nuts and a cup of baby carrots that I sometimes eat around 5 pm, but not always.

On Saturdays, ate whatever I wanted from 4:30-8 pm which motivated me to get back on diet the next day.

Walk or ran an hour a day. At first during the evenings, then woke up an hour early and did it in peace. Started causing me to go to bed earlier, a good thing.

Lost 70 pounds from March to October of last year. Stopped dieting and gained 40 back to date. Started back on diet this week. We just had our cheat meal and I could already tell the difference in where it felt more special than eating badly all the time. Going to shoot for 80 pounds total.

I’ve been back on diet for almost a week and lost 6 pounds. Likely water weight, not normal rate, but nice to see nonetheless. I’m already feeling better too.

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[–] brunofin@lemm.ee 3 points 2 years ago

COVID. Lost 10kg.

[–] scorpiosrevenge@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 years ago

Stopped drinking beer and doing HIIT/circuit workouts regularly -- lost about 30lb so far

[–] doyun@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago

I was never good at staying on a diet. I have really bad self control and go through phases where I get hooked on soda or energy drinks or smoking, etc.

Two things helped me finally lose weight and maintain a pretty healthy build (these days 90kg 183cm originally 110-115k).

First, I found I could lose weight in short periods when I had a concrete goal. I lost 10k in maybe 6 weeks. Plenty of it was water weight and came back. But after doing that 3 or 4 times I was down to a place I felt more comfortable with myself. During those cycles I was basically always thinking about my calories. It would get tiring in normal life but it was ok if I was trying to hit my goal.

Second, by focusing on my macros and trying to limit salt every day I ended up filling my stomach way before I went into calorie surplus. By going low sodium it eliminated any kind of fast food and most frozen foods. Getting rid of salt wasn't really for health it was just to lose water weight and hit my goal. But getting rid of salt ended up making my diet way healthier.

I also had some success by cutting out bread. I don't think bread is terrible for you or anything, but by giving myself that limitation I made myself choose better options

[–] ericskiff@beehaw.org 3 points 2 years ago

I went from 217->173 and have stayed in that range for 4 years. I’m 5’10” / M / 43years

Short answer: high protein / adequate fat keto with skipping breakfast (aka 16:8 intermittent fasting)

I tried it for weightloss, and immediately had health benefits within 36 hours of switching over. I’m never going back. I feel 10 years younger. Brain fog lifted, joint pain gone, more energy to move and do things, more patience and clarity at work and home. Hunger is a signal now and I’m never hangry.

It’s also just not that hard. I eat a ton of awesome meals full of chicken and roasted veg, bbq meats I smoke, steaks, omelets, huge salads. Life is good and I feel good.

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