If your answer is more than βoneβ, it usually means you donβt have the right pillow for your sleeping position. I have broad shoulders and I was a side sleeper. I used two pillows for the longest time, otherwise I had to twist my shoulder in while sleeping, or tilt my head towards the bed, neither being really comfortable for long time periods. Then I bought a thick foam one on sale in some random store I was at, and it made a world of a difference.
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I can't deal with more than one.
As a kid I used to sleep with none. As a teen a towel was enough. In my 20s I was happy with one thin pillow. Now in my 40s I have one average pillow and I feel like upgrading.
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you don't need multiple pillows you need one that has the right thickness
I don't have the luxury of buying one pillow each month, thank you very much.
0 or 1. 2+ is incredibly bad for your neck and sleep. Or you just have paper thin very old pillows and you should replace them with a high quality pillow. I use a Coop brand pillow and itβs customizable to whatever thickness works best for you. Get a good pillow and use 1. Donβt use more.
https://www.eightsleep.com/blog/how-many-pillows-do-you-really-need/
I can't even imagine what it would look like for someone to use more than 1 pillow. Like, how is their body not contorted into a horribly uncomfortable position?
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pillows always made me feel uncomfy so I pretty much entirely stopped using them. Ill ball up a blanket if I want some support but often times I forgo it
Two, with the bottom pillow pulled down a bit giving me 2 tiers.
I have wide shoulders and go to sleep on my side, so I need the height, but I tend to roll into my stomach, where 2 is too high, so I wake up on the bottom pillow.
Having 2 in a slanted stack just allows for the perfect height adjustment for neck alignment.
Holy shit!! This is the advanced pillow science I like to hear! I'm gonna try this right now!
Lol, glad you like it.
For some greater details, I've recently switched to shredded foam fill pillows. With the slant stack method, they kinda form into wedge shapes, adding support to keep the structure in place. The top sinks down to hold the pulled out bottom one out, and it keeps the bottom tier fluffy when I work my way down to sleeping in that.
I don't think that'd work quite as good with traditional polyfill pillows or solid foam slabs. I do feel I've had less neck pain this way though, and it worked ok with the limp ass pillows I had at a recent hotel stay.
A third pillow is propped on the nightstand for when I want to sit up in bed. That one goes almost vertical against the headboard.
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I recently made an effort to switch myself from stomach to side sleep⦠and discovered this exact technique through trial and error, and for the same reasons!
I do a few modifications, though. In my case it's specifically two thin soft pillows that give me the height I need. Also, I prefer them rotated vertically so I have a more generous chest surface on the lower tier. And if I go to sleep on my side (which is most of the time now) I don't need the tiers so I'll "roll up" the lower portion of the pillows to temporarily eliminate the lower tier. If I move enough at night the pillows unroll themselves right into my stomach sleep configuration. Or maybe I manually lift myself to let them unroll, not really sure but this has been working for me.
This has really been a fun thread and I'm glad I participated in it! With a post like this, I never know if the intent is serious or silly, but it's been cool learning everyone's pillow-tech.
The sleep pros may all say we should be using one thin pillow and all sleep on our back or whatever the general rules are these days, but I can't for the life of me fall asleep on my back. I don't sleep textbook perfect, so I've got to find a practical solution for me.
0-1
One
One, and zero when sleeping on my stomach.
1 big memory foam
None, I sleep on my elbow.
Smart. Cost effective.
One, that's the kind of thin you get from it being cheap and way past the point you're supposed to throw it out. Perfection.
One good latex pillow for me.
I had no idea that was a thing! Would they be good or bad for someone who hates memory foam?
They are the opposite of memory foam. Your head does not sweat, or sink into the latex. You actually sleep "on" the pillow not "in" like MF. You also sleep at a controlled temperature so it's quite comfortable.
I have a Dunlop one and I love it. I hear Talalay is softer but I have never tried one, also more expensive.
You cannot wash these pillows, so use a good protector on it. And never leave it in the sun. Heat is the enemy of latex.
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One ikea shark pillow
For me the stack goes:
- my head
- mostly flat pillow
- my arm
- another mostly flat pillow
- the bed
Big thick squishy pillows (like memory foam) give me neck pain for some reason? I always get one of my boyfriends to "wear in" my pillows for me first π
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Wait, you guys have more than one pillow?
According to science, anywhere from 1 to 0
Two pillows. Two duvets.
1 with memory foam. I sleep sideways and on the back. I hate it when pillows are too thin or fluffy but too high is also not good on the neck.
Hijacking this: Can someone answer me why Ikea mainly sells these huge square pillows? They are so uncomfortable to sleep on but they have the nicest pillowcases.
Are you in Germany? I don't know any country where square bed pillows are sold except DE.
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Just the 1 for me. I've got a Simba memory foam cube pillow. It's expensive at Β£100 (ish) but easily the best thing I've ever slept on. Like sinking into a perfectly supportive cloud. They have an inner bag filled with loads of 1cm memory foam cubes and a good outer case so you don't feel individual cubes. Super comfy.
0 I sleep with a blanket under my head. I can fold it as many times as I need to change the height. I can sleep well sideways without having the pillow right in my face like with soft pillows. Also doubles as a eyemask when there is to much light bordering me.
The only time I've slept on a blanket like this was in a police jail. Are you in jail?
I use one pillow that was sold as travel size, but I prefer it over a thick pillow.
One thick memory foam one. It was expensive but it doesn't lose fluffyness and it fixed my neck problems.
One buckwheat pillow. They're sort of adjustable. I'm a side/stomach sleeper.
Two. One classic one and a specific rectangular neck position pillow. I had used only one pillow for years until i met one of my ex. She had around 7 pillows around her bed and used them aplenty, almost as she never wanted to touch the actual bed surface with her head.
A single pillowcube pillow.
To anyone wondering since it's so often advertised, it does a good job as a pillow but it's nothing revolutionary.
Depends on the pillows. Generally, I want enough so that my neck is straight when I'm lying on my side.
1? Why do you need more?
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