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Last night I fell down a flight of stairs and rolled my ankle bad. It's black and blue and swollen but my s/o has no sympathy for me already. In context I only ask her to help me to the bathroom. Besides crawling, which I do now, should I duke it out more? I just don't understand, I can't physically put weight on it(without involuntarily screaming).

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[–] gregorum@lemm.ee 42 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

it should be elevated and iced continuously. if it doesn't improve somewhat in 24hrs, go to urgent care/ED because it may be broken.

it should also be wrapped and braced.

DO NOT walk on it or put any weight on it.

Edit: even if you didn’t break it, you have severely sprained it, and very likely tore some ligaments. You will need crutches for at least two weeks. Put as a little weight on it as possible during recovery or it will take longer to recover. Ibuprofen for the swelling, keep it wrapped and braced, and ice it when you’re not on it while keeping it elevated.

[–] Cap@lemm.ee 6 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] gregorum@lemm.ee 15 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

also, don't take anything stronger than ibuprofen so you can gauge the pain. that's diagnostically relevant.

If what you’re doing hurts, stop doing that.

[–] mozz@mbin.grits.dev 18 points 2 years ago

Go to the doctor, get it looked at and get crutches

[–] foggy@lemmy.world 17 points 2 years ago

Bruh what kind of girlfriend is not sympathetic to her boyfriend falling down the stairs and having a visibly injured ankle?

Anyways it's either sprained or broken.

Rest. Ice. Wrap with ace bandage. Keep it elevated above your heart for >12 hrs/day.

[–] jak@sopuli.xyz 16 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Your s/o doesn’t sound like a fit to take care of you right now, can you stay elsewhere?

[–] Cap@lemm.ee 10 points 2 years ago

We are married and I watch our four kids half of the week when I don't work. Can't leave. Thank you for your response

[–] jordanlund@lemmy.world 13 points 2 years ago

I thought you meant you were already walking on it and I was going to be like "Not normal, but congratulations!"

But yeah, others have said it, get to a doctor. Waiting could do more damage.

[–] Audrey0nne@leminal.space 12 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I mildly rolled my ankle getting off the toilet Wednesday morning and I’m just now putting my full weight on it (old people problems amirite?). You sound like an immediate hospital visit bro.

Unrelated your s/o could stand to have more patience for you, unless you being a jackass resulted in your injury. Otherwise it might be time to evaluate your relationship. How someone treats you while your sick, injured or incapacitated in any other form, gives great insight into the quality of your bond.

[–] Cap@lemm.ee 9 points 2 years ago (3 children)

You are right about seeing the insight, it's happened multiple occasions when I get sick. She has a lot of diagnosed mental health issues. Sticking with it for the children.

[–] Audrey0nne@leminal.space 10 points 2 years ago

Rough. Here’s to wishing you a speedy recovery and joy in your life.

[–] mozz@mbin.grits.dev 4 points 2 years ago

Oof

You got my sympathy my guy. I went through one version of that not that long ago. There's nothing good about it.

Also, go to the fucking hospital. Your kids won't be in a good spot if your ankle's ruined from an untreated fracture.

[–] Bytemeister@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

As a child of divorced parents, don't stick with it for the kids. You can separate and still be civil to each other and cooperatively raise children. It's better for them, and better for you. Sure, it sucked when my parents split, they fought real bad some times, but not nearly as bad as when they were together. I got a real swell stepdad out of it, and I learned what real, loving, cooperative adults look like. I also got to see how determined and dedicated my father was.

Every situation is different though, but that is my expericence.

[–] Trent@lemmy.ml 11 points 2 years ago

Yeah, if it's black and blue and hurts that much then you should definitely see a doctor. It may be fractured and you don't want that healing badly.

[–] TexMexBazooka@lemm.ee 7 points 2 years ago

Yeeeeahhhh if it’s black and blue and swollen, you tore/broke something and should go get it checked out asap

[–] JeeBaiChow@lemmy.world 6 points 2 years ago

I did this once, rolled over and to the side in one motion. Worst sprain of my life, including the time I took a jumper and landed my full weight on my ankle. It was the only time I had to stop whatever it was I was doing and get home asap. The drive back wasn't bad but the next morning I got out of bed I couldn't put pressure on my ankle at all. Swelled to the size of my calves and looked bruised and nasty. Took me out for a month and even so, I was put on crutches, but no cast. Get it looked at. Not all sprains are the same.

[–] spiffy_spaceman@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago

Did the same thing years ago. It was huge and black and blue. X-rays showed that I only strained it (no actual tears or tissue damage), but I could almost walk on it. It hurt, but I have a different tolerance for pain. I got a neoprene ankle brace with a splint in it and wore that for about 2 months afterwards. It was about 4 months before I was running again.

Now, having said all that, go see a doctor. You may have damaged it differently. There are a lot of bones and tendons in your foot and they all need to work properly for you to walk, so get it checked out. You might be out a few hundred dollars, but if you can't walk in 40 years, you'll probably wish you'd done it. Even if it's bad, there's a good chance you'll be just wearing the same neoprene brace this summer.

[–] spiffy_spaceman@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago

Also: if it's very swollen, that pressure stabilizes the injury and so it won't hurt as much because things can't move around. This is not a good sign.

[–] Kadaj21@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I did this in November over a weekend blowing leaves and stepped off an elevated piece of my driveway (due to tree roots). Heard a snap crackle pop and couldn’t walk on it. That Monday i went to urgent care and they x-rayed me, saw a potential fracture and put me in a boot. Went to a podiatrist a few days later and said i tore some ligaments, no fracture thankfully. A month on the boot with icing, then another month using a support wrap since i just wear slip ons (unless especially wintery out) with anti-inflammatory meds and I’m now free, though still feel not exactly 100% but seems to be getting better.

[–] foggy@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Tbh breaks are usually less complicated than ligaments tearing.

Bones just need to be in place for like 7 weeks. Boom. Healed.

Ligaments are fussy. Gotta really break em back in after they heal.

[–] Kadaj21@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Yeah certain movements feel “tight” and a bit uncomfortable to do. Figured it’d be a bit longer until i felt normal again.

[–] foggy@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I recommend hiking. Easy hiking, just woodland paths with roots and rocks and stuff.

Pavement is good at first but it won't force you to use all the... Nooks and crannies of your ligament so to speak.

Unexpectedly uneven footing will get those back up to snuff.

[–] heavyboots@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago

I rolled the sh!t out of mine a few months back (loud popping noise when I went over the front of the foot around onto the side missing a stair) and spent a day limping around but it was pretty good after 24 hours. Still had to take it easy for a couple weeks though. But OTOH I can stand in the sides of my ankles normally so I’m flexible enough this is the first instance of damage ever because the angle was so extreme…

I agree RICE is the way and stay off it if it hurts.