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Could we please refrain from doing exactly what nearly got programming.dev defederated? (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

submitted 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) by good_girl@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/main@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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People don't stop being trans because you disagree with them politically. I despise Jenner and other high profile trans grifters but I'm not shitty enough to deny their identities.

Do better. As a user of both sites this shit is genuinely upsetting. Despite how you may feel about hexbear, how can you claim that they bait people into revealing their internalized transphobia and then turn around and make shitty claims like this? I don't give a shit if you call me a tankie or red fash or whatever, but I'm trans whether you like me or not.

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[–] Franzia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 years ago

I understand why you're upset and I agree this isn't okay. We can only know this little bit about people online and we have to trust that they are giving us that information in good faith - if they claim to be trans, we need to accept them as the trans person that they are.

[–] BellyPurpledGerbil@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

As a trans person, I feel the need to say this for the cis so that y'all don't need to tiptoe around it or keep quiet:

Trans people are not immune to being awful people. You may not know if someone is really trans or not. But you can tell with much greater certainty whether or not they're an asshole. So stick to that instead of getting baited into bigoted language.

Asshole is gender neutral. 👏

[–] Mechaguana@programming.dev 2 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Wait what? What happened to programming.dev???

[–] JackbyDev@programming.dev 4 points 2 years ago

Nothing https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/7381989

[–] Ategon@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

The entire situation should be in one of the recent posts in !meta@programming.dev , its been handled though

[–] Mechaguana@programming.dev 1 points 2 years ago

Ah ok just saw the instance post i see now

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