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I'm really worried about the state of the US despite being a white male who was I'll coast right through it. I'll also accept "I don't" and "very poorly" as answers

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[–] AlyxMS@hexbear.net 8 points 2 years ago

By believing that eventually people will be so fed up with how bad things have gotten and start a revolution.

I'm not an accelerationist though.

[–] originalucifer@moist.catsweat.com 8 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

life is temporary.

im hangin on to the ride until i get thrown off. its my only shot, even if it sucks donkey balls

i guess my answer would be 'dont sweat the small stuff. its all small stuff'

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[–] vortexal@lemmy.ml 8 points 2 years ago

I do what I can to just ignore it. Sure, I don't have a lot and my life is pretty shitty but I always remember that someone somewhere else probably has it significantly worse. Also, while I know it's morbid to think like this, I know that if things get really bad, there will always be a way out.

[–] Apollo2323@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 2 years ago

Stoicism. Is there something that I can do about it?No. Is it under my control to change this? No. Then I move on and do the best I can be a better person and be more empathetic.

[–] Fizz@lemmy.nz 8 points 2 years ago

I focus on the areas I can impact. So far that's going OK. As for the state of the world I tell myself that it's probably not as crazy as the media makes it out to be and most of the time that's true. I'm not American so it makes it easier to dismiss American issues.

[–] Blackmist@feddit.uk 8 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Can't change it, don't care about it.

You are tuning in to the Tragedy of the Week Show. Next week they'll have another to show you.

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[–] RampantParanoia2365@lemmy.world 8 points 2 years ago (2 children)

I moved to Arizona, where I can drive 0.2 miles to the weed store.

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[–] cosmic_slate@dmv.social 8 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

The world is getting better in a lot of ways but the uplifting headlines don’t garner clicks and views. A lot of people only post the doom-and-gloom headlines.

Lemmy hasn’t been any better than Reddit in this regard.

[–] banneryear1868@lemmy.world 8 points 2 years ago

Understanding the historical circumstances I find myself in and devoting the majority of my effort in to things I can control.

[–] quams69@lemmy.world 8 points 2 years ago

I'm getting a vasectomy and I drink, cheers m8

[–] PanArab@lemmy.ml 7 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (3 children)

That’s a very relative and personal question. Because for me the world is getting better. Not everyone lives in the US, here we graduate university with money saved instead of being in debt

[–] flamingarms@feddit.uk 5 points 2 years ago

Yeah, this is why I've urged so many people to shop around for a country like they do a job. See what country aligns with your values, with your goals, with benefits, etc. and start working to get there. You don't have to stay miserable if you feel like your country is not where you want it to be and you're not the one to help fix it.

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[–] Godric@lemmy.world 7 points 2 years ago (8 children)

β€œI wish it need not have happened in my time,” said Frodo. β€œSo do I,” said Gandalf, β€œand so do all who live to see such times. But that is not for them to decide. All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given us.”

Worry without action is of no tangible use. If you just worry, ACT!

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[–] anaesidemus@hexbear.net 7 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

joker-troll

real answerabsurdism

[–] corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca 6 points 2 years ago

the fact that the world isn't getting any better

I think you've beggared (begged) the question.

[–] AuntieFreeze@lemmy.world 6 points 2 years ago

Going fishing.

[–] CloutAtlas@hexbear.net 6 points 2 years ago

Alcohol and shitposting

[–] Reddfugee42@lemmy.world 6 points 2 years ago

There's tons of evidence that the world is getting better. Life expectancies are the highest they've ever been, disease is the lowest it's ever been, globalization is distributing opportunities for relative prosperity to previously ignored or neglected regions. The only thing that's not getting better right now is climate change but the youth care about that more than ever so it seems like we'll make headway on that once the old guard ends their watch. The youth are aldo much more progressive so with their ascent to power, I expect more power to return to the people and more scrutiny to befall the rich and powerful as it once was.

What sort of critical life and death issues are getting worse in your perspective?

[–] berrodeguarana@lemmy.eco.br 6 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I try to remind myself that, in the great scheme of things (i.e, evolution) a "step forward, two steps back" is a common thing in this chaotic universe of ours.

Meteors, dinosaurs, civil wars, capitalism issues, pandemics, murder, genocide, climatic changes... it's all accounted for.

Of course, the answer is different if you are suffering directly from these things (apart from the meteors and dinosaurs) I mentioned above, then things suddenly get VERY personal and provoke impulsive reactions from our end.

[–] TORFdot0@lemmy.world 6 points 2 years ago

The only things worth worrying about are the things that you can control. Don’t worry about who wins the election, just worry about your vote. Don’t worry about what you don’t have, take joy in the things you do have.

Find your village, whether that’s the community of your favorite hobby, a group of local friends, or your family and invest in them and not a politician, celebrity, or athlete.

There is always a reason to find joy.

[–] Jakdracula@lemmy.world 6 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Not getting better?

What are you basing that belief on?

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[–] GarbageShoot@hexbear.net 5 points 2 years ago

Not the answer you are looking for, but I think the world is generally getting better. What is getting worse is life in the imperial core, which has been rotting for a long time now as western capitalists cannibalize their own states to keep profit growth up. There are dangers associated with this for the rest of the world, and other places where things are also definitely getting worse (western Ukraine, Argentina, etc.), but I think for most of the population, besides the mounting threat of the US starting World War II 2, things look okay.

[–] SuperSpruce@lemmy.zip 5 points 2 years ago

By doing things that make me happy.

[–] bane_killgrind@kbin.social 5 points 2 years ago

Be the change you want to see man

[–] endhits@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago

Got news for you, if you're working class, being white or male will not let you "coast right through" the inevitable boom/bust cycles that will befall the economies. You'll be under the boot like everyone else.

[–] user91@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Have a read of Factfulness. It'll provide, amongst other things, lovely visualizations to demonstrate that's not actually true.

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[–] Saigonauticon@voltage.vn 5 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (4 children)

I was sort of in the same boat, although in Canada. We had our own set of different, also serious issues that were not getting any better. I couldn't see any way to do anything about it myself, or even secure myself an OK life in the country.

So, I emigrated. Just like so many generations of my family before me, from their various home countries. I'm not sure if I'm up to the task of making the whole world better, but at least I can move somewhere where I can be productive enough to make things locally better (for myself and perhaps even a few others).

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[–] zbyte64@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 2 years ago

A way of life is ending, but life will go on. Frankly I'm rooting for gas to be more expensive.

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