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[–] LinkOpensChest_wav@lemmy.dbzer0.com 40 points 2 years ago (3 children)

I love sex,but my gods is it highly overrated by society

[–] rockSlayer@lemmy.world 23 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

That's how I learned I was ace. After my first time I thought "what's the big deal about it?" Thought about it for a few months, and realized that not all ace people are sex adverse or even try to avoid it.

I'm literally married, but I sometimes feel like my husband and I may both be on the ACE spectrum. He's the only person I seriously dated in my life, and we've been together more than a decade. I never felt strongly attracted to anyone in that way until I got to know him.

Sex is great, but I'd say there are other facets of our relationship that we value even more.

[–] SkyeStarfall@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 2 years ago

I feel like sex is weirdly both over and underrated by society. There's put far too much emphasis on sex as this be all end all super special thing, and at the same time it's underrated about how nice it can be if you let it and remove any hangups about it (such as religious shame), and embrace it fully (as in, accepting and indulging in kinks, your sexuality, etc.).

For me it's like, it's not a special or super serious thing at all, but it's great and can be a lot of fun, especially together with the emotional closeness. It's like a hobby. So let yourself be a sex nerd!

[–] stebo02@sopuli.xyz 2 points 2 years ago

Yes, I too enjoy the sexy sex very much

[–] lugal@sopuli.xyz 23 points 2 years ago (3 children)

"sex" is a mass noun like paper. It's not countable so it's "one more piece of sex pleeeease"

[–] Zagorath@aussie.zone 13 points 2 years ago

It is an uncountable noun, but it's more like water. So you ask for "one glass of sex please", or if you're feeling particularly spicy "one jug of sex please".

[–] Microw@lemm.ee 5 points 2 years ago

That's what makes the post so funny, yes

[–] moistclump@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago

Less sex. Fewer pieces of sex.

[–] AnUnusualRelic@lemmy.world 11 points 2 years ago

Sorry sir, we're right out of sex. Would a swift kick in the butt do?

[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 8 points 2 years ago (2 children)

I've done a lot of things in my life and sex still remains number 1 in terms of fun.

[–] Kit@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I must not be having good sex because it wouldn't even be in the top 5 for me

[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

I can show you how it's done. 😏

[–] netwren@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago

I haven't tried hard drugs but nothing else even comes close

[–] tkk13909@sopuli.xyz 7 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] Kattail_@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 years ago (1 children)

i upvoted this because of you

[–] tkk13909@sopuli.xyz 3 points 2 years ago

Noooo! It was right at 196!!!

Now I might as well upvote lol