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[–] puchaczyk@lemmy.blahaj.zone 36 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] name_NULL111653@pawb.social 23 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (2 children)

Sounds very platonic, masochistic, weak, or (all 3) Christian Virtue..

Rather, we should treat others as you wish to be treated... And then when their response is sure, "treat others as you have been treated." Love those who deserve love, and destroy those who deserve wrath. A law of basic human nature.

[–] WeLoveCastingSpellz@lemmy.dbzer0.com 20 points 2 years ago (1 children)

a reminder that these "values" from religion have been used to keep slaves in line

[–] name_NULL111653@pawb.social 3 points 2 years ago

I would argue that anyone who adopts these values is a slave to themselves, controlled by whoever claims to share these values but in fact uses them for control. These values no longer serve our self-interest or nature, and as the entire point of values is to make judgement of relative "right" and "wrong" from one's own perspective, we should be free to mold them as need be.

Religious values serve to externalize one's own will to a "god." This rationalizes why nature is able to get away with what is "forbidden" (for the purpose of making the masses feel guilty and fall back to the priests for forgiveness). When we realize that values are not absolute, and can be molded according to individual will, we do away with the need for a "god" to externalize our personal moral preferences.

As Nietzsche said, when god dies, we must each become a god unto ourselves, or try to lie to ourselves that god still lives and remain slaves to the externalized will of the long-dead others who invented him.

[–] kakes@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 years ago

I disagree, I don't see pacifist values as weak at all , quite the opposite in fact.

I don't agree with a lot of religious teachings, but this is one thing I think they (in theory if not in practice) get right.

[–] spacesweedkid27@lemmy.world 22 points 2 years ago

Least Nitzschean elefant.

[–] dalekcaan@lemm.ee 11 points 2 years ago

The elephant forgives

But he never forgets

[–] pinkdrunkenelephants@lemmy.cafe 10 points 2 years ago

That's just rhetoric people tell themselves to convince themselves they have power they actually don't.

You know what happens when you tell an enemy you forgive them? They respond, "Excellent! I'm no longer responsible for doing THIS," and then they repeat the behavior you sold out your self-respect thinking you could score a gotcha moment over.