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[–] CJOtheReal@ani.social 42 points 2 years ago (2 children)

You can also technically stick your winer in all of those...

One of them however is a one time experience...

[–] Letstakealook@lemm.ee 26 points 2 years ago (1 children)

It would have to be a hair trigger or hefty dong to set the trap off...

[–] Holzkohlen@feddit.de 31 points 2 years ago (1 children)

This is actually how they do gender affirmation surgery.

[–] Franzia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 2 years ago
[–] girltwink@lemmy.world 31 points 2 years ago (4 children)

I like calling my trans gf a trap 😌

[–] Zoboomafoo@lemmy.world 44 points 2 years ago (1 children)

And she's OK with it, right?

[–] girltwink@lemmy.world 37 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] Zoboomafoo@lemmy.world 10 points 2 years ago
[–] BigBananaDealer@lemm.ee 29 points 2 years ago (2 children)

how often do you quote adrmial ackbar?

[–] Hawke@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)
[–] BigBananaDealer@lemm.ee 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

the link won't open for me 😔

[–] Hawke@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago

Maybe this? I’ve never posted an image to Lemmy before.

Prciness Leia

[–] BrianTheeBiscuiteer@lemmy.world 13 points 2 years ago (1 children)

If you know it's a trap then it's called a "showdown".

[–] girltwink@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago

Based. Top4top is the most genuine and violent form of love.

[–] Noodle07@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

She trapped your heart!

[–] mjsaber@lemmy.blahaj.zone 17 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

Just want to comment on the "trap is ok/not ok debate."

It's totally cool if you or your partner(s) identity as a trap. As an older trans girl, being a trap was a badge of honor. It meant not only do you pass, but you're fucking hot. Almost like a trap/not trap distinction of attractiveness (which is also horribly misogynistic and demeaning), but it was a qualifier.

So I get it, part of me likes the idea of being called that - in a private, contextual sense. But the problem is the word and the connotation it has in the general zeitgeist, which implies that a trans person (typically a trans woman) "tricks" a man into having sex with her, and then deserves whatever happens to her, regardless of how dehumanizing it may be.

It is the horrible, completely unjustifiable rationale behind the Panic Defense, and that's why it is a term that needs to be buried. Continued use of it is an unconscious signal that trans women are perpetrating some kind of deception just by existing in a man's field of vision (if, of course, she comes close enough to cis white heteronormtive standards of beauty).

Be woke. Don't say trap (except in the bedroom. And then smack my ass a little 😋).

[–] violetraven@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 years ago

What does it take to get to that point? It's not like people "tell" you.

[–] AI_toothbrush@lemmy.zip 12 points 2 years ago

I think in a comic for example you can call someone a trap. Also if the person agrees thay can be called a trap if they like it. But dont just randomly call people slurs.

[–] hrimfaxi_work@midwest.social 11 points 2 years ago

All three will also usually contain >3 grams of iron.

[–] bbpolterGAYst@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 2 years ago (1 children)

i am not capable of doing that iam FRAIL and WEAK and my arms are made out of SILLY STRING

[–] PullUpCircuit@iusearchlinux.fyi 6 points 2 years ago

Shins are pretty week. You should be able to kick right through them with less force than needed to hold up your body.

[–] tomo@reddit.azumanga.gay 9 points 2 years ago

so THATS the original ive seen so many edits of this before lol
unless this is also an edit that just feels like it could be the original