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I have been growing my hair out for months now, and it has reached a point where strands are getting stuck in my mouth all the time lol. I like the way my hair looks, but I would like it if it attacked me less. What solutions do you all use?

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[–] InEnduringGrowStrong@lemm.ee 4 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Having grown my hair down to my belly button over the last years...
The "hair dips into your toast" phase is annoying af.

Hair ties, hair clips, bobby pins, hats, etc.
A nice hat when you're going outside on a windy day helps a lot imho.
Honestly, there's a period when your hair is long enough to be annoying but not long enough to tie back and it's, well, annoying.
Good news is when it reaches just about your chin, you'll be able to tie it back when it annoys you and it's much less fuss from that point on.
Once it's even longer than that it will end on your chest and it's not in the way as much.

Pre-emptively cut the forked ends now and then.
It seems counter productive to progress, but that's still faster than breaking knots of tangled hair.

Patience.

A random dude with long hair.
Edit: Oh and if you get yourself some hair ties, get those without the metal bit otherwise they break so much hair.

[–] gratux@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 years ago

I was still in my closeted male-presenting days when I grew my hair out, but i used a baseball cap to keep the hair back

[–] Cybrpwca@beehaw.org 1 points 2 years ago

If I know I'm going to be dealing with wind for an extended time I'll tie it back. Otherwise I just put up with hair in my face and brush it next chance I get. There is, unfortunately, no real way around it, unless you use so much styling product that your hair is glued in place.

[–] LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 years ago

My hair is over half way down my back, and I just tuck it behind my ears. It's not fool proof though :P its become too long to be easily manageable lol