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[–] xkforce@lemmy.world 41 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I didnt find out the game was on hard mode until the last semester of my undergrad.

[–] snooggums@kbin.social 36 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (3 children)

Imagine finding out in your 30s.

[–] wandermind@sopuli.xyz 28 points 2 years ago

Imagine being told in your 30s that the game probably is on hard mode, but because you've somehow managed to beat a few bosses it can't actually be that much harder than easy mode so they're not going to find out for sure whether that is the case.

[–] Gormadt@lemmy.blahaj.zone 19 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I found out at 29

After I dropped out of college twice of course

But hey, I can drive a forklift like a god at this point

[–] OwlYaYeet@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Who needs a degree and debt when you can be forklift certified and make money?

[–] xkforce@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

Tbh money isnt the main reason I went to college. There are, as you said, other ways to make money. i.e I was an insurance agent. If I bothered to go back, I could very easily make 100k a year. All off of experience and the 3 months of studying for the licensing exams and no degree required. But thats not what I actually want to do. College basically allowed me to do what I actually want to do AND live comfortably doing so.

[–] Gormadt@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 2 years ago

Straight up

I really wanted to become a teacher

But now I drive a forklift

Yeah I make like $30 an hour now but it's simply okay. I would have preferred becoming a teacher.

[–] xkforce@lemmy.world 17 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] snooggums@kbin.social 22 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

Yeah, but can you imagine it?

[–] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world 9 points 2 years ago (1 children)

tries hard to concentrate on imagining own past ..kinda? 🤷

[–] Kase@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

when my therapist asks what I ate for breakfast

[–] DarkMessiah@lemmy.world 38 points 2 years ago (1 children)

And even then, the medication is usually just turning on the tutorial so you can learn the controls, the difficulty doesn’t actually change.

[–] xkforce@lemmy.world 21 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (2 children)

CBT therapy is the tutorial. The drugs are aim assist. The game is still set to hard but at least now you have a fighting chance

[–] A_Very_Big_Fan@lemmy.world 39 points 2 years ago (3 children)

CBT therapy

Cock & Ball Torture?

[–] Rivalarrival@lemmy.today 23 points 2 years ago

Can you refer me to your therapist?

[–] JesusLikesYourButt@lemmy.world 15 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Cognitive behavioral therapy lol

[–] WorkIsSlow@lemmy.world 38 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I'll give both a shot just in case.

[–] Gormadt@lemmy.blahaj.zone 19 points 2 years ago

That's the spirit

[–] Fosheze@lemmy.world 8 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Cock & Ball Therapy

Cognitive Behavioral Torture

[–] OwlYaYeet@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago (1 children)

It's CBT therapy so Cognitive Behavioral Torture Therapy

[–] Kase@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago

Sounds like you might be with the wrong therapist /j

[–] 6mementomori@lemm.ee 4 points 2 years ago

the internet has ruined me

[–] retrolasered@lemmy.zip 26 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Saving the meds for the boss fight

[–] RQG@lemmy.world 6 points 2 years ago

And then end up never using any consumables. Yep that's me.

Even at the final boss, I’ll be saving potions cuz I might need them later.

[–] hesusingthespiritbomb@lemmy.world 21 points 2 years ago (4 children)

The title and comments are super toxic.

Mental health disorders are serious issues. You owe it to yourself to explore and utilize all treatment options available. Refusing to take medications out of some weird sense of pride isn't funny, it's self destructive.

[–] CluelessDude@lemmy.zip 10 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Well, I wasn't trying to be toxic as a person with diagnosed ADHD myself, simply sharing that my brain thinks it can "beat" it by not resorting to any help( meds in this case) , which is why I used that analogy because it's similar to games, I do not recommend on skipping on help tho medicine exist for a reason, you are not alone and you don't have to fight it alone either.

It's not only you though. The top comment is talking about how they only take medication when they REALLY need it.

Like I get you build up a tolerance but it's possible to take ADHD meds on a semi consistent basis. Plus Wellbutrin/Effexor/Starters/Qelbree are at the very least better than nothing.

Refusing to take medications out of some weird sense of pride isn't funny, it's self destructive.

For a nuanced perspective, some medications are indeed overprescribed, and you should be careful with your health.

[–] bigboig@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 2 years ago

I'm guessing the title is self-deprecating

[–] LapGoat@pawb.social 3 points 2 years ago

thanks for this comment. its a common problem. I needed to literally have my partner encourage me for almost a year to finally see a psychiatrist to get treated. better living through chemistry, give yourself the conditions you need to thrive and take care of yourself/your loved ones. nobody is going to see you treading water and go "ah, so tough and brave to be doing that". grab a floaty!

[–] MystikIncarnate@lemmy.ca 4 points 2 years ago

I took my health potion today. It's all good

[–] avrachan@lemmings.world -1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

neurodivergence is not a thing afaik.

we are different from others just as how everyone is different from each other (unless we have some exceptional adhd).

I have adhd, it's hard. Many people who don't have adhd also struggle from various issues (depression, anxiety, OCD).

very few people are "sorted" with playing life in easy mode.

these memes may make us feel special but I find it silly.

[–] EmptySlime@lemmy.blahaj.zone 46 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

It's not a thing in the sense of it being some innate part of the universe. But it's very real in the sense of societal expectations. It's all our natural differences, but Neurotypical is just the acceptable amount of difference that society is built around and caters to. If you fall outside of that you're neurodivergent. Of course people aren't sorted into playing life on easy mode; their level of difference simply naturally falls in that acceptable range. They don't have to think about it like someone else might because it just comes naturally to them. It's considered a disability because everyone is expected to operate inside of that acceptable range and if you can't then you're broken according to society.

[–] feedum_sneedson@lemmy.world -4 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] HikingVet@lemmy.ca 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] feedum_sneedson@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I did; have been exhausted today though.

[–] HikingVet@lemmy.ca 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] feedum_sneedson@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago

No, I don't think I will. Don't know you, don't like being told what to do.