Unrelated, but for some reason my mind put you in a Starfleet uniform and it made the Nike logo a badge.
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You sound amazing!
oh yeah, girl! <3
Little meek honestly. Like I know girls are "meant to be" meek but I reject the notion and think a proper girl needs to be able to sound angry, without relying on slipping back into the masculine zone. Which is something I struggle with myself ngl
Would be fine for ordering a burger at burgerking without accidentally outing yourself but there are many situations for which you probably aren't ready. Still a better starting point than I had though, you're doing great!
oh wow, that's not "properly trained"?
here's the opinion of a cis gay man: i think you sound great, a definite feminine tone, cute accentuation, and it fits the petite stature on your pictures. You seem to have a wonderful starting point, with professional training on top, I can see it only become flawless. bravo!
Way better than mine and I've been working with a vocal therapist for a few months. I'm getting surgery soon, though, which hopefully will help with the pitch issue I have.