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"i can make you like sex" (i'm asexual)

"i can make you like men" (i'm a lesbian)

i hate when people assume they can make me like sex, men, or sex with men. i'm an asexual lesbian, i hardly want sex. i feel little to no attraction, and especially not to these creeps!!!

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[–] crapwittyname@feddit.uk 7 points 11 hours ago

That's nothing. I'm so hot and good at sex, I can make you like sex with men that say that they can make you like men and sex.

Seriously though, I had a friend that used to boast that he'd 'turned his girlfriend straight'. She was maybe 19, so any reasonable person would assume she's still figuring herself out. I couldn't get my head around the level of hubris needed to think you have that power. Do these guys truly believe they have literally magical penises?

[–] KickMeElmo@sopuli.xyz 42 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago) (2 children)

The furthest I go is "I can make you like creme brulee." And if I can't, well, that's your loss.

Joking aside, that shit is creepy even to men. It's disgusting behavior and there's no excuse for it.

[–] Cevilia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

"I can make you like garlic bread"

[–] VerilyFemme@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 12 hours ago

If they don't like garlic bread, don't even try to fix them

[–] rebeccapatriciastar@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago) (1 children)

for sure. i had a girl on reddit tell me she was around my age, a lil older, and hypersexual. she kept telling me she'd "make me" like sex too like a lot of men on reddit have said or insinuated. she also kept asking me what colour my underwear was.

[–] thoughtfuldragon@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

ew that's really inappropriate of her

oh shit, i meant hypersexual, not asexual, but yeah she would always use it as an excuse for her behaviour

[–] Broadfern@lemmy.world 15 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

These people are not well-adjusted. What terribly disrespectful and gross things to say to another human 🤢

I’m sorry you have to deal with that. Please remember you deserve to be respected for who you are as a person, and expect/accept only that from those you associate with, if possible! /gen /pos

thank you. it truly is awful...